Like many, my family decided to relocate during the pandemic. As a new mom of two little ones (a 2-year-old and a 1-year-old), I had established a wonderful network of friends in my previous home. However, after moving closer to family, I found myself needing to rebuild my circle of mom friends. Now that I’ve been in my new town since summer, I’ve begun to forge connections, and I’d love to share what I’ve learned about making new friends during these challenging times.
Starting Conversations
Let’s be real, it can be a bit intimidating, but remember: many are in the same boat looking for social interaction. If I spot a mom with kids around the same age as mine, I’ll usually strike up a conversation by asking about her kids. If the chat flows well, I’ll ask for her number to plan an outdoor playdate. We live near a park, which makes it a great spot to meet up.
Utilizing Current Connections
Another great approach is to ask your current friends if they know anyone in your new area. I’ve had success with this method, going on strolls and enjoying backyard picnics with newly introduced friends. It’s comforting to connect through mutual acquaintances!
Exploring Local Online Communities
Don’t overlook local Facebook groups! Most towns have a moms group that you can easily find. For instance, I joined “Moms of Springfield.” There are always moms eager to meet up for a walk or coffee, and it’s a good way to break the ice.
Virtual Connections
Given the current climate, online communities are also a fantastic option. I started a virtual group called “Mom Connections” to help moms of toddlers and newborns come together for support and learning. We host weekly classes and meetups, plus we have a Slack channel for ongoing engagement. I’m really looking forward to our upcoming session on “Parenting during a Pandemic,” which will address how to talk to kids about health and social skills during these times.
Additional Resources
If you’re looking for more parenting insights, check out this article on Modern Family Blog that dives deeper into community building. And if you’re considering at-home insemination, Make A Mom offers the top kits available. For additional information on fertility and health, Science Daily is an excellent resource.
In summary, while forging new friendships as a mom during a pandemic may feel daunting, there are numerous avenues to explore. Be open and proactive, and remember that many are seeking the same connections as you are.
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