Why do parents feel the need to say sorry when sharing their child’s accomplishments?
“I apologize, but I have to share what little Jake just did…”
“Here’s a proud moment about my child, unfollow if you’re not interested…”
“Warning: Mom Brag Alert!…”
What compels us, as parents, to apologize before we share good news? If my child excels in soccer, do I need to preface my post with a disclaimer? Why do I feel the need to justify my excitement? Well, I won’t—because I am going to celebrate those moments!
I’m sure you’ve noticed this trend too. Daily, I see posts, photos, or updates celebrating the little victories of children, filled with enthusiasm and often adorned with emojis. Typically, these posts include a snapshot of the proud child, showing off their latest achievement.
And you know what? I love it!
I genuinely enjoy reading about the wonderful things kids are accomplishing. I hope parents, grandparents, and aunts continue to share their joyful news without hesitation. There is absolutely no need to apologize for celebrating your child’s success.
Children thrive on knowing that their parents are proud of them. When they hear about the praise their parents share, it boosts their self-esteem and motivates them to achieve even more. I have a child who thrives on positive reinforcement, and you better believe I’ll be bragging about her achievements—no apologies needed.
So, why do others feel compelled to apologize? Perhaps some see their posts as a way to garner validation for their parenting skills. Or maybe they simply want to express pride in their child’s accomplishments. Either way, it’s essential to recognize that everyone has their own unique milestones.
Sure, it’s easy to feel a twinge of anxiety when faced with the achievements of others. I admit that sometimes I feel the pressure when friends post about their kids receiving scholarships or acceptance letters to prestigious universities. But honestly? It’s not because I doubt my own child’s potential. It’s more about wishing for them to stay little a bit longer. College is expensive, and I’m not ready for that phase yet!
What about the moments that seem trivial to some but are monumental for others? For instance, a child who makes eye contact when someone greets them or who can sit calmly in their car seat. Parents find joy in various milestones, big or small, and they deserve to be celebrated.
When we think about the myriad of achievements worth sharing, it raises a question: Why is it easier to applaud seemingly simple victories than to celebrate impressive feats like scoring a touchdown?
The answer may lie in how we frame our posts. Instead of focusing solely on abilities, we could highlight improvements. For example, saying, “After a year of practice, he just scored his 19th touchdown!” shifts the focus to growth rather than innate talent.
However, why should we tiptoe around others when it comes to being proud of our own kids? Every child has something they excel at, from trying broccoli for the first time to landing a full scholarship. Each achievement is worthy of being celebrated.
I encourage you to share your pride in your child’s accomplishments, whether they are improvements or innate skills. Let the world know how fantastic your kid is! Because in the end, it’s a beautiful thing to express pride, and your child will be thrilled to know you’ve been bragging about them.
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Summary
Parents shouldn’t hesitate to celebrate their children’s achievements, big or small. Instead of apologizing, they should share their pride openly, as it boosts children’s self-esteem and encourages further accomplishments. Everyone has unique milestones worthy of recognition, and it’s essential to focus on improvements rather than just abilities.
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