By: Jamie Thompson
Updated: Dec. 13, 2023
Originally Published: Dec. 6, 2023
Trigger Warning: Discussion of depression and suicide
As a married father in my mid-30s, I have faced a lifelong struggle with anxiety and depression. I’ve always been open about this journey. Recently, I shared a post on social media detailing how I occasionally consult with a therapist and rely on medication to manage my mental health. My aim was to destigmatize the conversation around seeking help for mental illness, especially among men. To my surprise, the post went viral, receiving an overwhelming response, which I found encouraging.
However, the most striking moment came a few days later when a woman reached out to me, expressing that my post had prevented her from “ending her pain.” This wasn’t the first time I’ve received such a heartfelt message.
For several days, her words lingered in my thoughts. I grappled with feelings of inadequacy, questioning my ability to provide the support she might need. While I’ve endured my own experiences with mental health—fluctuating between periods of struggle and stability—I’m not equipped to offer professional guidance or treatment.
Understanding Our Limitations in Supporting Others
It’s essential to recognize that I’m not a mental health expert; I’m just a dad navigating my own challenges. I can listen, empathize, and offer reassurance, but I cannot single-handedly guide someone through their mental health struggles. Nor should you assume that you or your loved ones can fill that role.
If you or someone you care about is facing depression, anxiety, or any mental health issue, seeking help from qualified professionals is crucial. There’s no shame in reaching out for medical advice. It’s vital to normalize the act of consulting doctors, just as we would for physical ailments.
If you find yourself in a position to support someone, be there for them. Listen and show love, but also ensure they have access to professional resources. Provide them with crisis hotline numbers, and let them know they are valued and worthy of help.
The Long Fight Against Mental Illness
For many of us, depression may be a lifelong battle, but it is possible to find relief. The journey from suicidal thoughts to a place of high-functioning mental health can feel daunting. The path to recovery often requires time and adjustments in medication and lifestyle. With the right support and strategies, happiness can emerge once again.
Remember, your well-being is crucial—not just for you but for the loved ones who depend on you.
Don’t allow negative thoughts to undermine your worth. You matter. Seek out medication, professional help, and prioritize self-care. I truly believe in your capacity for healing.
When someone reaches out for assistance, it’s important to acknowledge your role as a supportive friend or family member, not as a therapist. You can be a part of their support system, but the guidance from a trained professional is irreplaceable. Encourage them to seek the help they need, in the same way you would advocate for medical assistance for a physical condition.
When that woman messaged me, I immediately advised her to reach out to a professional if she hadn’t already. I emphasized the importance of following prescribed treatment and reassured her that happiness is attainable. I sincerely hope she took that advice to heart.
It’s crucial that we continue to share our own stories, promote open discussions about mental health, and normalize seeking professional help. This is not a battle meant to be fought in isolation.
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Summary
In this article, I reflect on my experiences with depression and anxiety and the importance of seeking professional help for mental health challenges. I emphasize the need for supportive friendships while recognizing that we are not equipped to replace medical professionals. It is crucial to normalize discussions around mental health and encourage seeking appropriate treatment.
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