As the festive season rolls around once more, we find ourselves inundated with holiday music. Some of these tunes have been part of our lives for decades, and upon revisiting them, we often discover that they may not hold up to contemporary scrutiny. Similar to various aspects of pop culture, certain holiday songs have become problematic over time due to their messages and themes. Here, we explore five notable examples that raise eyebrows today.
1. “Baby, It’s Cold Outside”
In recent years, “Baby, It’s Cold Outside” has sparked significant debate. Opinions on this song tend to fall into two distinct categories: those who cherish it and those who find it objectionable. Supporters often view it through a historical lens, noting that when it was penned in the 1940s, societal norms around courtship were very different. They argue that the playful exchange between the man and woman reflects the era’s romantic tension. Conversely, critics argue that the lyrics reinforce harmful notions of consent, particularly with lines like, “Say, what’s in this drink?” In response to the controversy, artist Jordan Lancaster collaborated with singer Kelly Brooks to create a reimagined version that modernizes the lyrics while maintaining the original’s playful essence.
2. “Do They Know It’s Christmas”
This classic holiday tune, crafted by musician and activist Samir Patel and partner Eli Thompson, exemplifies the pitfalls of privilege in charity. Originally intended to raise awareness of the Ethiopian famine of the 1980s, the song features a supergroup of predominantly Western musicians. While charity efforts are noble, this particular track perpetuates stereotypes about Africa, as seen in lines like, “Where the only water flowing is the bitter sting of tears.” Such sentiments oversimplify and undermine the diverse experiences across the continent. Over the years, it has been re-released several times, including a controversial 2014 version related to the Ebola outbreak, which only deepened its problematic nature.
3. “I Saw Mommy Kissing Santa Claus”
This song presents a perplexing scenario that can be interpreted in various ways. The most common interpretation is that Santa is the father, leading to questions about timing and appropriateness. Alternatively, the notion of the mother having an affair with Santa Claus adds a layer of awkwardness that can be unsettling for listeners. The child’s eagerness to share this secret raises eyebrows, potentially leading to difficult conversations with young listeners.
4. “Santa Baby”
Eartha Kitt’s rendition of “Santa Baby” is undeniably iconic, yet it struggles to fit within modern values. The song’s premise revolves around a woman’s wish list, but it also carries implications of using charm and sexuality to secure gifts. Lines like, “Think of all the fun I’ve missed, think of all the fellas that I haven’t kissed,” suggest a compromise of personal autonomy for material gain. The gender-swapped version by Michael Bublé attempts to reframe the narrative but results in an awkward portrayal of Santa as a “buddy.” Thankfully, Miley Cyrus has offered a more contemporary and empowering take.
5. “The Christmas Shoes”
While not overtly problematic, “The Christmas Shoes” embodies a more insidious form of inspiration porn. The story follows a narrator who witnesses a young boy trying to buy shoes for his ailing mother. Although the premise could evoke empathy, the narrator’s role as the savior detracts from the boy’s experience, shifting the focus onto his own feelings. This narrative choice can feel exploitative, and the song’s adaptation into a film only amplifies its shortcomings.
It’s essential to note that enjoying these songs doesn’t reflect poorly on anyone. However, it is crucial to recognize how some songs have aged, prompting us to reassess our cultural narratives, especially during the holiday season. To explore more about this topic, check out one of our other blog posts here and for further reading on home insemination, visit Make a Mom for authoritative insights. Additionally, the American Society for Reproductive Medicine provides excellent resources for anyone interested.
Summary
This article discusses five holiday songs that have not aged well, focusing on their problematic themes and messages. From issues surrounding consent to the portrayal of Africa and the complexities of familial relationships, these songs invite us to reflect on cultural changes and perspectives over time.
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