As we embark on a new decade, I’ve taken the time to reflect on ten transformative insights I’ve acquired over the past ten years.
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Expressing Yourself Is Not Fatal.
Oh, how I wish I had realized this truth earlier! As a British individual and a woman, I was conditioned to be polite and not overly assertive. But I’ve embraced a more forthright approach, beginning with honest conversations with myself. This shift has been liberating, refreshing, and surprisingly straightforward. However, I always prioritize kindness and respect in my honesty. -
Shopping Is No Longer a Leisure Activity.
The rise of online shopping has revolutionized my retail experience. With apps like Zara becoming my new entertainment (who doesn’t enjoy filling and emptying a cart?), I find little joy in wandering through stores. The convenience of digital shopping offers comfort, speed, and a broader selection, minus the crowds. -
Don’t Reserve Scented Candles for Special Moments.
Scented candles are a delightful yet affordable luxury that can elevate your daily life. They provide instant relaxation and a sense of indulgence. Instead of stashing them away, light them up and savor the ambiance they create—then treat yourself to more. -
My Tolerance for Crowds Is Limited.
In line with my commitment to honesty, I’ve reevaluated my relationships and who I choose to spend time with. This includes significant life changes such as divorce and reevaluating friendships. I’ve learned that life is too short to waste time with those who don’t uplift you. -
The Value of Long-Lasting Friendships.
Nothing compares to the comfort of having your oldest friends by your side, no matter the distance. My friends have supported me through various life challenges, and our annual tradition of gathering in beautiful locations has strengthened our bond. They’ve always been there when I needed them most, and for that, I am eternally grateful. -
New Friendships Can Flourish in Your 40s.
Contrary to my earlier beliefs, it’s entirely possible to cultivate meaningful friendships later in life. While I cherish friendships that have lasted for decades, I’ve also welcomed new connections that have enriched my life in unexpected ways. -
My Adult Children Bring Joy, Not Friendship.
As I conclude this decade, my children have grown into young adults, each bringing unique perspectives and energy. We’ve navigated numerous challenges together, and I admire their resilience. They fill our home with laughter and wisdom, and I eagerly anticipate the adventures that lie ahead. -
Indulge in Quality Foods.
Forget the low-fat trends. Enjoying full-fat cheese, real butter, and exquisite chocolate is not only more satisfying but also healthier in moderation. Just look at how French women embrace this philosophy! -
Gel Manicures Are Revolutionary.
Gone are the days of waiting two hours for nail polish to dry, only to have it chip the next day. Gel manicures have changed the game for me. And let’s not forget keratin treatments—especially useful in humid climates! -
Prioritizing Physical Health Is Crucial.
I discovered a passion for running this decade, which has become an integral part of my daily life. Even when faced with setbacks, I adapted and found alternative exercises. Staying active is non-negotiable for me; I want to lead a long, healthy life.
As I look forward to the next decade, I encourage you to cherish your loved ones, savor good food, and embrace life’s joys.
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Summary:
Over the past decade, I’ve learned that self-expression is vital, shopping should be convenient, and cherished friendships are invaluable. Embracing quality over quantity in food and prioritizing physical health has also transformed my lifestyle. Lastly, new friendships can blossom at any age, and the joy from my adult children is unparalleled.
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