Many of us have grappled with self-acceptance, and it’s becoming increasingly evident that we’re weary of society’s narrow definitions of beauty for women. In The Confessional, we’re sharing our truths.
Since childhood, we’ve been inundated by media and societal pressures that promote diet culture relentlessly. We encounter stories and images showcasing extreme weight loss journeys, celebrities who “bounced back” after pregnancy, and countless articles suggesting how to dress to appear “thinner” or how to angle our selfies to conceal flaws.
Fortunately, public figures like Mia Thompson, Jordan Lee, and Sophia Brown, alongside social media influencers advocating for self-love and acceptance regardless of size, are helping to shift the narrative towards body positivity. This evolution is a welcome change, and we’re celebrating these empowering confessions.
Let’s face it: there’s still a long road ahead. Many submissions to The Confessional reflect our ongoing struggles with body image, but a growing number of voices are proudly expressing their love for their bodies, no matter the size.
Breaking free from the cycle of self-criticism can be especially challenging when it originates from family. Many of us are working to silence those persistent negative voices to protect the next generation.
Confession #1719455
“I actually kind of appreciate my soft, flabby tummy. My partner is an artist working on a body positivity project and finds me attractive. My mom, however, keeps nudging me to fall back into my unhealthy eating patterns from college.”
Confession #21817417
“Moms who brag about how thin their daughters are have a special place in Hell.”
We are beginning to understand that health comes in all shapes and sizes, and it’s high time we stop punishing ourselves for having a normal appetite.
Confession #1715569
“I’m healthy but overweight. It’s entirely possible to be fat and healthy, and I’ll take that over being unhealthy at any size.”
Confession #22868576
“I just had cookies and milk for dinner. Couldn’t bear the thought of another chicken breast. I’m done with diet culture.”
Confession #25608793
“I stopped dieting, and my food intake has decreased. I’m no longer obsessing over food all day. I eat what I want and can stop when I’m full. No more food restrictions. Screw diet culture. Enjoying real food is part of living well.”
This journey has also brought the realization that we should have accepted ourselves ages ago, because we are perfectly fine as we are.
Confession #25763374
“I wish I had cherished my old body. I starved myself to conform, and everyone praised me for looking good. Now, I’m happier eating like a normal person.”
Confession #25761186
“At 33, I’ve decided I will never diet again. Sure, I could be 120 lbs with a flat stomach, but why? For others’ approval? No thanks. My New Year’s resolution is to love myself as I am.”
Confession #25753345
“I used to despise my body because social media and movies made me feel worthless if I didn’t have perky breasts, a flat stomach, and weighed 100 lbs. I wish I knew sooner that this was all nonsense.”
Confession #25752230
“I spent years wearing loose clothes because I felt ashamed of my curves. Now at 30, I’m dressing for my shape and embracing my body–for myself. Learning to love myself has been liberating.”
As for the pressure to “bounce back” after having a baby? Forget it. Our bodies are incredible—they have nurtured and brought new life into the world. Of course, such a monumental change will affect our physique, and we should celebrate it!
Confession #1700195
“I’m 220 lbs with a c-section flap, but I feel fabulous at work. All the guys flirt with me, and the jealous married women can’t touch this. I love my body, no matter what.”
Confession #10735545
“I’ve never felt more in love with my body than right after having a baby. I feel small, sexy, and powerful. Our bodies are built for amazing things. Ladies, don’t ever be ashamed of the physical changes from growing a human!”
Confession #1448046
“My body isn’t perfect. I have scars, stretch marks, and some sagging skin, but I love it! It has given me children and the joy of my partner’s touch.”
Confession #1774506
“I’m at my highest weight after having twins, but I’m finally at peace with my body. I love myself after going through a twin pregnancy and realizing how resilient my body truly is.”
Let these affirming confessions remind us that we are worth so much more than what a scale says. Our value isn’t tied to our weight, skin smoothness, or breast shape. No more apologies for how we look—because the only opinion that truly matters? Our own.
Confession #25759965
“Plus-size folks who proudly showcase full-body photos are my kind of people: real, honest, and unapologetic.”
Confession #“I think I’m beautiful and sexy. I sometimes remember I’m fat, gray-haired, and almost 50, so maybe not everyone else sees it. Their loss.”
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In summary, it’s time for us to prioritize self-love and acceptance over societal expectations. Let’s celebrate our bodies, embrace our uniqueness, and move forward with confidence and joy.
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