There’s no shame in enjoying erotic novels and romance!
Let’s get real about our fascination with romance and erotica: society has instilled a sense of embarrassment around indulging in these genres—why? Because of deep-rooted misogyny, both internalized and systemic. What’s so ludicrous about heroines and characters who embrace love and passion? Nothing at all!
Yet, the stigma around reading romance and erotic stories persists. How many times have you caught yourself calling these tales “smut” or “trashy”? It’s probably why many confessions are submitted anonymously.
Escapism is a beautiful gift! Everyone needs a creative outlet to help them escape the daily grind. For some, it’s binge-watching feel-good shows; for others, it’s diving into books where fantasies flourish—and let’s not forget the sizzling sex scenes! There’s nothing quite like that thrilling rush while reading a steamy interaction.
Confession #23661614
“I devour romance novels incessantly and can’t help but imagine how different my life could be. The men in those stories make my husband seem like leftover gum on the sidewalk.”
Absolutely! The allure of these stories lies in how the men treat women with care, offering sexual pleasure, emotional support, and financial security—can I get an Amen?
Confession #21658745
“The only way I cope with the monotony of life is through reading and writing romance. Without them, I doubt I would still be here. They’re the light at the end of my tunnel.”
Confession #23576979
“A part of me craves romance novels, but I worry I’ll just end up disappointed with my partner’s lack of effort. Why do men make romance feel like a chore? Don’t they realize how much affection they’d receive if they just made an effort?”
In our everyday lives as parents, we’re often overwhelmed, exhausted, and juggling a million tasks. If you’re in a traditional relationship, chances are you’re not being swept off your feet by someone resembling a heartthrob from a romance novel—like Theo James or Jason Momoa.
So, if your thoughts wander to the pages of books by authors like Sarah MacLean, Nora Roberts, or Lisa Kleypas, let yourself indulge.
Confession #25723565
“I often create romantic fantasies in my head while doing monotonous tasks like dishes. I keep rotating between a few scenarios, but I’m growing tired of them and can’t think of new ones.”
Confession #25753379
“I’m secretly crafting a romance novel inspired by a past relationship. I never write when my partner is around, but he seems upset about something—I suspect he snooped and read a draft. Jealous that it’s not about you, H?”
This isn’t to dismiss other literary forms like biographies or literary fiction, but romance novels hold a special place for offering guaranteed happy endings (HEA). For those unfamiliar, that’s “happily ever after”—and yes, Nicholas Sparks novels don’t quite fit this bill!
Confession #16554359
“I spend most of my day lost in online romance novels, wishing I could be the heroine living out those steamy moments. I rush to tidy up so no one realizes how lazy I feel.”
Confession #19845509
“I love reading romance novels. My only regret is that I didn’t start until my 40s. They’re such a blast!”
So, let go of any shame, romance and erotica enthusiasts. Life is too short not to read what brings you joy, especially in today’s challenging climate. Immerse yourself in the stories that make your heart race!
Because it’s perfectly acceptable to enjoy reading about passionate encounters.
Confession #21230111
“My partner and kids think I’m reading cooking blogs, but I’m actually engrossed in erotic romance novels. I dream of being the woman in a steamy love triangle with two men. I can only imagine how pleasurable that would be.”
Ultimately, embrace what brings you happiness, and never apologize for it.
This article was originally published on March 9, 2020.
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Summary:
In an age where reading romance and erotica can still come with shame, this article encourages readers to embrace their love for these genres. Through shared confessions, it highlights how escapism through romance novels can provide joy and comfort amidst life’s challenges. The piece ultimately champions the importance of indulging in what brings pleasure without guilt.
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