The other day, I met a seemingly lovely mom at the playground. She had that friendly vibe I often crave in my search for a mom friend. Finding friends becomes increasingly challenging as kids grow out of the toddler phase, and I often feel like a desperate mama with “BE MY FRIEND NOW” written all over my forehead. So, I generally try to remain open-minded about differing opinions and parenting styles. But as our conversation progressed, it became evident that we had some stark differences, particularly when she introduced the Trump Factor.
The Trump Factor is an absolute dealbreaker for me.
I can handle your holistic remedies and your belief that my writing isn’t a “real job,” as long as our kids are not using sticks as weapons and your car is just as chaotic as mine. I can even tolerate your enthusiasm for firearms, despite your kid’s enthusiastic NRA talk during playdates. We can nod along while knowing we both wish for a world where guns are a thing of the past, and we might even share a laugh about our mutual love for Disney, even if I think glitter should come with a warning label.
But once the Trump Factor comes into play, I’m out.
Why does the Trump Factor send me running? It symbolizes a mindset I simply cannot accept or tolerate around my kids.
First and foremost, the Trump Factor is rooted in racism. Remember Charlottesville? That’s when Trump failed to condemn white supremacists after a protest against a Confederate statue turned deadly, saying there was “blame on both sides.” Let’s also not forget that he promoted birtherism. Or that time he shut down the government for 35 days to push for his ridiculous border wall, leaving countless people without pay. And let’s talk about his alleged comments about African countries being “shithole nations” or his disgraceful remarks about Nigerian immigrants.
Additionally, Trump has separated families at the border, resulting in traumatized children. I’ve seen the aftermath of that policy—kids who are terrified, struggling with abandonment issues, and unable to sleep alone. Supporting Trump means endorsing the tearing apart of families, and that’s something I cannot support.
If there’s a racist at the table and everyone else is talking to them, then there’s a problem. If you don’t see what’s wrong, you’re not paying attention.
Trump has rolled back environmental protections and set back progress by decades. He’s prone to mood swings and tantrums, has faced multiple accusations of sexual misconduct, and was impeached for attempting to manipulate foreign aid for political gain. Forbes even claims he enriches billionaires while ignoring the impoverished. His brand of cheap patriotism is a distraction from the real issues facing our nation.
If you don’t see the harm he causes, then you’re choosing ignorance. The essence of the Trump Factor is willful blindness, a refusal to think critically about the consequences of one’s beliefs. I refuse to surround myself or my children with individuals who lack the capacity for critical thought, especially when it has such dangerous implications. So, if you’re a fan of the Trump Factor, don’t bother knocking on my door. It’s firmly shut, and we’re not home.
That said, I’m open to discussing your holistic remedies and MLM experiences, but please—leave the Trump Factor behind.
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In summary, the Trump Factor represents a troubling mindset that I cannot accept in my life. While I’m open to differing opinions on many topics, this is one area where I draw the line.
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