As a resident of King County, Washington, where the COVID-19 outbreak first took a firm hold in the U.S., I’m navigating this unprecedented situation with my husband and our two elementary school-aged children. On March 18th, our county reported 562 cases of COVID-19 and 56 deaths, with a significant number occurring at a local care facility just a few miles from our home.
Having seen films like I Am Legend, Contagion, and World War Z, the idea of living at the epicenter of a pandemic isn’t exactly what I had in mind for my family. Should Will Smith, Brad Pitt, or Matt Damon show up looking for help against the zombie-like victims of this virus, rest assured, I’d be ready to assist.
Initially, the news of COVID-19 felt distant. In February, as reports emerged about the virus spreading in China, we empathized with those affected but couldn’t grasp the reality of it hitting home. After all, Washington state serves as a crucial hub for trade with China, and we didn’t think it would impact us so soon.
When the first case was reported in Snohomish County on January 20th, it seemed manageable; the individual was already quarantined, and there was no cause for alarm. However, as time went on, the situation escalated. A week after the first local death on February 29th, our school district closed its doors indefinitely, and businesses began encouraging remote work. Grocery stores were stripped bare of hand sanitizers and disinfectants, leaving us wondering if we were about to face a crisis akin to those depicted in the movies.
The school system has done an admirable job of educating our children about the virus without inciting panic. “The virus only affects old people and babies,” my son casually informed me, “Really old people. Like, in their forties.”
Despite the concerns, most in our community remain calm, exchanging safe handwashing songs and taking precautions. My neighbor canceled their child’s birthday party, and when my husband coughed on the bus, heads turned as if he had drawn a weapon.
What films often overlook is the quiet resilience of communities during crises. People aren’t fleeing in droves, and instead of chaos, we’re seeing compassion. The day schools were closed, community members quickly organized online groups to share childcare resources. Local churches and neighbors rallied to support the exhausted staff at the care facility, while tech-savvy individuals helped families transition to e-learning. Some even offered refurbished computers for students to complete assignments from home.
The stark reality is that COVID-19 is impacting real lives. There are doctors racing against time to curb the virus, families struggling to make ends meet, and individuals grieving losses. It’s not the thrilling storyline of a Hollywood blockbuster; it’s a heartbreaking reality that we must confront.
Unfortunately, our leaders have sometimes blurred the lines between fact and fiction. In a March 4th interview, the President suggested that health organizations were exaggerating the threat of COVID-19. It’s crucial for everyone to recognize that this is not a fictional narrative; COVID-19 is real, and we must heed the guidance provided by health officials.
And just for the record, Matt Damon, Will Smith, and Brad Pitt: if you’re looking for real-life experience, you know where to find us. For more insights on navigating these challenges, check out our other post here, and don’t forget to explore resources on fertility and pregnancy at Make a Mom and American Pregnancy.
Summary:
Living in the epicenter of the COVID-19 pandemic has transformed daily life for families. As schools closed and communities rallied to support one another, the reality of the virus hit home. Unlike the dramatic portrayals in films, the experience has been marked by quiet resilience and compassion rather than chaos. The importance of heeding health officials’ warnings has never been clearer.

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