Updated: March 22, 2020
Originally Published: March 22, 2020
This week, I was fortunate enough to experience the life-saving power of friendship not once, but twice. The first time was on the slopes, where a friend guided me through a skiing excursion that I was woefully unprepared for. The second instance came during a conversation about a relationship that had turned toxic, where another friend helped me find my footing amidst the chaos of confusion.
With only two ski lessons under my belt and a modest sense of balance, I thought I’d be fine taking my two children, both seasoned ski school attendees, on a real ski lift to tackle an actual mountain. But just three minutes into sliding down an icy trail, I realized my mistake—I was woefully out of my depth and couldn’t manage the descent alone.
Just then, a friend swooped in, timing her arrival perfectly. She offered a steady hand and guided us down the safer stretches of the slope, patiently waiting as we learned to navigate our own turns and stops. Her positivity and confidence were infectious, instilling a newfound courage in all of us. We miraculously made it down the mountain, hearts racing with relief and exhilaration. The kids declared it the best experience ever, and I couldn’t help but think how much worse it might have been without her support. Perhaps we would have made it down, but the risk of damaging their budding confidence in skiing was very real.
A few days later, I found myself in need of saving once more. This time, during a heart-to-heart with another friend about a relationship that left me emotionally drained. She set aside her own burdens to offer me clarity amid my tangled thoughts. “If you truly believe what you’re saying, you need to trust my perspective,” she urged. “You have to step away before you lose yourself completely.”
I confessed my doubts about finding the strength to leave, and she lent me her resolve, standing by my side as I found the courage to voice what needed to be said. Her unwavering presence kept me grounded as I battled the self-doubt that had kept me trapped. She illuminated the path ahead when I could no longer see it for myself, saving me in a moment when I felt utterly lost.
Friendships are a beautiful dance of give and take. This week, I found myself in the position of needing support more than I could offer. I was saved in ways that mattered—physically, mentally, and emotionally. My friends reminded me of my worthiness, and for that, I am eternally grateful.
To those friends who stepped in when I couldn’t find my way, I hope you never find yourselves in a place where you need that kind of help. But if you do, know that I will be there, ready to lend a hand and a smile, just as you did for me.
I want you to recognize the incredible courage it takes to lead the way, and the strength required to extend a hand even when it might throw you off balance. Your love and support will always be cherished and reciprocated.
And to those who have given so much, often without being asked, a simple thank you feels inadequate. You have saved me in ways you may not realize, and I will always be grateful.
Summary
This article reflects on the profound impact of friendship during moments of crisis, illustrating how friends can help us navigate both physical and emotional challenges. Through personal anecdotes, the author emphasizes the importance of support and the courage it takes to lend a helping hand.
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