It seems that distance learning is the hot topic among parents these days, and chances are you’re in the thick of it too. Helping our children learn from home is no small feat, especially when many of us are juggling remote work, household responsibilities, and the task of keeping our kids engaged and educated. The global pandemic has thrust us into social isolation, a shift we were all unprepared for.
We greatly appreciate the hard work teachers are putting in to support us, but the reality is that the primary responsibility for our children’s education now rests on our shoulders. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, you’re definitely not alone. Most parents lack a formal background in education, not to mention the patience required for this undertaking. So how do we navigate this remote learning challenge when we feel like we’re barely holding it together?
First, it’s crucial to recognize that this is a tough time for both parents and students, and striving for perfection is unrealistic. The well-being of our children, both mentally and physically, should take precedence. Education is important, but it can take a backseat to ensuring our kids feel safe and secure. Mickey Jones, co-founder of Learning Path Academy, offers some invaluable tips for making this adjustment a bit smoother.
Focus on Well-Being First
Jones emphasizes, “Children learn best when they feel safe and understood. Encourage open discussions about their feelings and reassure them they aren’t alone in this.” This resonates deeply with me. In our family, fostering strong connections comes first. If a child (or even an adult) is feeling out of sorts—whether tired, hungry, or distracted—learning is unlikely to happen. Establishing a routine that covers all of life’s basics is key.
Involve Your Child in Creating a Routine
While the idea of a perfectly harmonious household sounds wonderful, it’s often not realistic. Kids thrive on structure and clear expectations. As Jones suggests, “Kids are accustomed to routines, so keep that going at home. Develop a schedule with input from everyone in the household.” When children take part in creating their schedules, it gives them a sense of ownership.
Offer Choices When Possible
Once you have a routine in place, look for ways to empower your child with choices. Jones advises, “If your child prefers to tackle math before science, let them make that decision. As long as you’re meeting educational requirements, you have some flexibility.” I’ve noticed that my kids are more productive in the morning, so we prioritize academic work right after breakfast and a little home “recess.”
Encourage Frequent Breaks
Don’t overlook the importance of breaks, as Jones reminds us to “include time for physical activity, brain breaks, snacks, meals, household chores, and family activities.” Too much screen time can lead to eye strain and restlessness, which hinders learning. If a child is feeling hungry or distracted, they won’t be able to focus. Breaks are essential. So, get outside, whip up a quick snack, or tackle a household chore together.
Reach Out to Teachers for Guidance
Jones suggests that parents should lean on teachers for assistance. Consider yourself a Learning Coach. It’s completely okay to admit to your children that this is a challenging time, and that there will be bumps along the way. Maintain open lines of communication with your child’s educators, asking questions and seeking additional support as needed.
Celebrate Small Wins
It’s easy to focus on what’s not going well during these times, but acknowledging the positives is crucial. As Jones points out, “Celebrate small victories by recognizing accomplishments, no matter how minor.” I’ve planned a few surprises for my kids—not based on their academic progress, but just because. From tie-dye shirt sessions to surprise Easter egg hunts, these small gestures go a long way in boosting morale.
Embrace Imperfection
Let’s face it: things rarely go perfectly in a classroom, so why expect that at home? Flexibility is vital for success. Remember, it’s okay for things to be messy and imperfect. Jones reassures us, “Accept that this is a learning experience for both you and your children. With time, it will get easier.”
By keeping these tips in mind, you can create a more productive and positive learning environment at home, setting your children up for success. Every little win counts, and you will get through this together.
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In summary, navigating distance learning during these challenging times requires flexibility, patience, and a focus on well-being over perfection. Involving your child in the process and celebrating small victories can help create a more positive atmosphere that promotes learning.
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