Like many families, we’re navigating self-quarantine to help combat the ongoing pandemic and protect those at risk. With my kids out of school and away from their friends, I thought they would be constantly reaching for their phones to connect virtually. While they do check in occasionally, it’s far less than I anticipated.
Instead, they’ve become quite the pair. Whether it’s binge-watching shows or engaging in endless games, they are practically glued to one another. Of course, this closeness comes with its fair share of squabbles—loud arguments that erupt over which Netflix show to watch or who gets to build with the LEGOs first.
In the early days of quarantine, I attempted to mediate their disputes—could they really be that passionate about which cushion to use on the couch? (Spoiler: Absolutely.) As time passed, I opted for a more hands-off approach; as long as no one was getting hurt, let the disagreements flow. They seem to need this outlet for their emotions, and honestly, it’s exhausting but also a bit of a win-win.
Initially, I was concerned that my kids were only turning to each other, but then it dawned on me that this isn’t their first experience of finding solace in one another. When my partner was diagnosed with a serious illness, our lives were turned upside down. The isolation we faced was not just physical but emotional as well. My children lost their anchor as they dealt with the upheaval, and their friends couldn’t truly grasp the weight of their reality.
During that challenging time, my kids learned to lean on each other. They would sit close during TV time or retreat to their playroom to create elaborate imaginary worlds. With each other’s support, they navigated their grief and fears, becoming each other’s steadfast allies.
After my partner passed away, as the initial shock began to fade, I noticed their bond wasn’t as bright as it once was. New friendships began to take precedence, which is natural as kids grow older. However, with the current uncertainty of our world, they have once again turned to one another for comfort.
Now, when they’re not bickering, my daughter will surprise my son with a snack or he’ll pick a dandelion for her during our walks. Their laughter and whispers of shared secrets resonate in our home, reminding me of the strength of their sibling bond.
While the days can feel endless and the arguments can be relentless, I find comfort in knowing they have each other. The squabbles may never fully cease; they are a natural part of sibling dynamics. Yet, amidst the chaos, it’s those tender moments that shine through, proving that no matter the upheaval life throws at them, they will always have each other—even if they never manage to share that pillow.
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In summary, the quarantine has rekindled the bond between my kids, allowing them to find comfort and support in each other during these uncertain times. Their relationship, though peppered with squabbles, remains a vital source of strength for both of them.
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