Let’s face it, parents—quarantine can be a wild ride, right? Sure, family bonding time is a treasure, but it can also feel a bit overwhelming. Just think about it: have you become an expert on every detail of your child’s favorite video game? I know I have! Bonus points if you’ve also been stuck with your partner all day, giving you more opportunities for romantic moments—if you can manage to find them amidst the chaos.
With kids constantly around and no chance for a sneaky date night, it can be hard to keep the romance alive. So let’s take a stand and say goodbye to the quarantine blues! It’s time to cultivate our own romance, even if that means showering and shaving our legs—yes, you heard that right!
To help you keep the love alive during these challenging times, we reached out to relationship guru, Laura Fields. She shared some fun and practical tips to spark joy between you and your partner.
Challenge Each Other in the Kitchen
First off, let’s challenge each other in the kitchen! Even though traditional date nights are out of the question, you can still whip up some fun with a cooking competition. Laura suggests turning dinner prep into a friendly rivalry, where everyone can join in. Once the kids are asleep, you and your partner can enjoy a sweet dessert together—wink, wink!
Nostalgic Game Night
If cooking isn’t your jam, consider a nostalgic game night. Dust off those old board games or tackle a puzzle together for some quality bonding. A competitive game of Monopoly or a round of charades can be exactly the distraction you need to rekindle that connection. And who knows? Once the kids are tucked in, the evening may take a romantic turn.
Reminisce with Old Photographs
Another delightful idea is to sift through old photographs and reminisce. Recently, I stumbled upon a picture of my partner and me from our younger days—ah, the memories! Reflecting on the early days of your relationship can remind you both of the journey you’ve taken together.
Create a Cozy Movie Theater
How about transforming your living room into a cozy movie theater? Laura suggests decorating with lights and blankets, making popcorn, and grabbing your favorite candy for a family movie night. Once the kids are asleep, you can switch to a more intimate film of your choice.
Date Night In
Don’t forget about the concept of a date night in! Get your kids involved by letting them pick out fancy outfits for you. They can serve as your waitstaff and even take your dinner order. While it might be chaotic, think of the memories you’re creating and the message you’re sending to your kids about prioritizing love.
Try Something New Together
Trying something new together can bring excitement back into your relationship as well. Laura encourages couples to explore online classes or activities that can be done from home, like cooking lessons or even intimate yoga sessions. After all, even if it ends in laughter and a bit of awkwardness, those experiences become cherished stories.
Make Time for Yourself
Amidst the stress and chaos, remember the importance of making time for yourself too. Spending weeks together under one roof can lead to tension. Carve out moments for personal relaxation, whether it’s enjoying a bubble bath or catching up on your favorite show. A little self-care goes a long way in nurturing your relationship as well.
Ultimately, now is the time to prioritize your connection. Take moments to talk, hold hands, and reassure each other that you’re in this together. For additional ideas on maintaining your bond, check out our other blog post here.
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In conclusion, while quarantine may have altered our routines, it doesn’t mean we can’t find ways to keep the love alive. Embrace the little moments, try new things, and remember why you fell in love in the first place.
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