Amid the pandemic, many people have found themselves out of work, including those in the adult entertainment industry. Take, for instance, a 31-year-old single mother named Mia, who recently transitioned from being a dental assistant to a webcam model after her unemployment claim stalled. “I’m making the best out of my situation,” she shares. “I need to support my kids while navigating this quarantine.”
Webcam modeling, a legal form of sex work, is increasingly appealing due to its flexibility and ease of entry. Models can connect with audiences from the comfort of their homes, with no formal application process. While some performers showcase their talents like dancing or crafting, many engage in more intimate acts. However, the stigma surrounding this line of work is palpable, and as a former sex worker, I can empathize with the feelings of marginalization.
After learning about the restrictions on financial aid during COVID-19, it became clear that sex workers were left out. I reached out to individuals affected by the crisis to gather their stories. Mia, for example, balances her children’s online schooling with her camming schedule. “It’s exhausting to put on a happy face at night after a long day,” she explains. Despite her modest approach to work, which prioritizes boundaries, she has struggled to make ends meet, earning less than $30 so far.
Then there’s Jenna, a programmer, and her partner, Lily, a former nursing home aide. When COVID-19 hit, Lily quit her job due to anxiety about bringing the virus home to their asthmatic son. The pair began performing online, earning around $10 an hour. They appreciate the opportunity for safer work, but still, the stigma of their profession weighs heavily on them. “Our families wouldn’t approve,” Jenna notes, highlighting their need for privacy.
Sam, a go-go dancer, faces similar challenges. With clubs closed, she has turned to creating custom content online, but competition has intensified. “There are so many new models entering the scene,” she laments. It’s difficult to maintain client relationships when everyone is struggling financially. As a mother of three, she finds it particularly challenging to juggle parenting with her work, often using her phone while her kids are busy with school.
Despite their efforts, many sex workers like Sam are ineligible for COVID-19 relief funds. “I can’t file for unemployment as an independent contractor,” she explains. “It’s frustrating.” The barriers they face are compounded by the emotional toll of their work, which is often isolating. In traditional jobs, the community is built-in, but online work can lack that support.
As the pandemic continues, it’s vital to recognize that sex workers—whether they’re single parents or not—deserve respect and support. The biases surrounding their work must be set aside in favor of compassion and understanding.
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In summary, as unemployment rates rise and many seek creative ways to generate income, it’s crucial to advocate for the inclusion of sex workers in relief efforts. They are part of our communities and deserve the same consideration as anyone else during these trying times.
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