In various states, gun stores have been categorized as ‘essential’ businesses—a development that raises significant concerns. During these challenging times, we feel compelled to share our experiences and insights from the gun control advocacy space.
Through our shared journey, we’ve forged a deep connection rooted in our personal encounters with violence. Despite the surface-level differences in our stories, we’ve found solace, camaraderie, and a sisterhood in our commonalities.
The Story of Mia
Take, for instance, the story of Mia, who endured both domestic abuse and gun violence. In 2015, her violent ex-partner shot her and her father in a harrowing incident that her young child witnessed. Miraculously, they all survived, and Mia’s abuser was sentenced to decades in prison. She has since become a vocal advocate against domestic violence, using her experience to empower others.
The Story of Jake
Then there’s Jake, who survived childhood trauma and gun violence. At just five years old, he faced sexual assault, an experience that left scars that would last a lifetime. Years later, he lost his beloved aunt, Sarah, in a tragic courthouse shooting. Determined to honor her memory, Jake became an advocate for stronger gun control laws. He founded a nonprofit organization to support those affected by gun violence, highlighting the need for better resources for survivors navigating their trauma.
Patterns Among Perpetrators
It’s alarming to note the patterns among the perpetrators of violence in our lives. Mia’s abuser had a troubling history, leveraging his military background to manipulate situations and maintain control over her. Similarly, Jake’s aunt’s shooter had a documented history of erratic behavior, ultimately exploiting the gun show loophole to acquire a firearm without undergoing a background check. Both were diagnosed with psychopathic tendencies, showing a lack of empathy and conscience.
The Impact of COVID-19
As the COVID-19 pandemic unfolds, we feel it’s crucial to voice our concerns. Many individuals forced into isolation are trapped in environments that are anything but safe. While these stay-at-home orders are vital for public health, they can also exacerbate the dangers faced by those living with abusive partners or family members.
U.N. Secretary-General António Guterres recently urged nations to prioritize the prevention of violence against women in their COVID-19 response plans. Unfortunately, the U.S. has been slow to act, with legislative efforts like the Violence Against Women Act (VAWA) stagnant in Congress.
The prolonged nature of shelter-in-place orders increases risks within homes as financial stressors and isolation create a perfect storm for violence. Disturbingly, 20% of victims in domestic violence homicides are not intimate partners but rather friends, family, or bystanders who become collateral damage.
Access to Firearms
Moreover, many state leaders have failed to classify gun stores as non-essential during this perilous period, enabling greater access to firearms. With shelters already at capacity, those escaping violence often find themselves with nowhere to turn. The pandemic has illuminated critical gaps in support systems for survivors, making it increasingly difficult to predict how they will navigate these challenging times.
Resources for Survivors
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Conclusion
In conclusion, it’s essential to recognize the terrifying realities many face in their homes, especially as access to weapons remains unchecked. We must continue advocating for change and support systems for those affected by violence, particularly during these unprecedented times.
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