As a single working mom navigating the complexities of raising a child on the autism spectrum, I’ve encountered numerous ‘miracles’ amidst what often feels like an insurmountable challenge. Juggling a demanding career while parenting a teenager with additional needs, alongside a lively dog and the added chaos of moving during a pandemic, has truly tested my limits. To top it off, mastering at-home learning for a high school freshman while managing a full-time job has been nothing short of a rollercoaster ride.
In my professional life, I’ve held significant positions leading marketing for a well-respected agency, but nothing could have prepared me for the dual demands of being a Chief Marketing Officer and a single parent during these unprecedented times. As we all find ourselves glued to our screens for endless virtual meetings, this work-from-home arrangement has brought both challenges and unexpected rewards for all parents, especially those like me.
The Challenges We Face
The negatives are undeniable. I’m no educator, and helping my 14-year-old son with his math homework can feel like an uphill battle. The struggles of home learning often lead to feelings of inadequacy. My mantra has become, “I’m failing my child,” a sentiment many parents can relate to. And while I’m constantly busy with laundry, grocery shopping, and the relentless cycle of meal prep, I’m also aware that others face far more significant challenges during this global crisis.
Discovering the Positives
However, amidst the stress, I’ve discovered some remarkable positives:
Miracle #1:
I’m present for my children from dawn until dusk. After navigating morning routines filled with their own unique challenges, my son often collapses into my lap for a hug—a precious moment that reminds me of our bond.
Miracle #2:
My son’s academic performance has improved. By being available to help him keep track of his assignments and provide encouragement, I’ve witnessed a boost in his confidence and grades.
Miracle #3:
My kids are getting along better than ever. Despite their usual sibling rivalry, the pandemic has fostered a camaraderie I never thought possible between them, especially given their age gap.
Miracle #4:
My workplace dynamics have shifted. The typical hierarchy has faded, replaced by a shared understanding of our collective struggles. Working from home has allowed for deeper connections with colleagues, making us more empathetic and supportive of one another.
Embracing the Journey
While I wouldn’t want to relive this pandemic experience, I’ve learned to appreciate this unique time with my kids. It’s important to recognize that you’re doing a tremendous job, even when it feels like you’re not. This period of uncertainty has no manual, and it’s okay to feel overwhelmed. But remember, if your children are fed, clothed, and loved, you’re succeeding in your own way.
Take a moment to appreciate how you’re evolving—not just in skills, but in patience and gratitude. Document the small things you’re thankful for; they may serve as a reminder of your resilience when life presents new challenges.
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Conclusion
In summary, as a single mom managing a full-time job and a child on the autism spectrum, I’ve experienced both struggles and uplifting moments during this pandemic. The key is to recognize and cherish the small victories, embrace the time spent together, and remind ourselves that we are doing the best we can in extraordinary circumstances.
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