After putting my little ones to bed last night, I surveyed the chaos they left behind—a testament to their boundless curiosity and creativity. As a mom of three—ages seven, five, and two—finding time to tidy up is nearly impossible. To truly savor this phase of motherhood, I choose to prioritize moments with my kids over household chores.
I appreciate a clean home. I enjoy organization. Yes, I cringe at every misplaced toy and crumb beneath my feet. I often dream of having an immaculate space, one that resembles a Chip and Joanna Gaines masterpiece. But I know that someday, I can have that pristine environment filled with elegant furnishings and meticulously arranged decor. For now, though, I have only 18 years filled with tiny handprints, crayon scribbles, and the delightful messes that come with raising children.
When my children eventually grow up and leave, I’ll surely miss the delightful chaos of our home. I would trade that dream home for another 18 years of laughter, exploration, and their unfiltered joy—because that’s what truly matters.
In the meantime, I aspire to be the kind of mom who sets aside the dishes to engage in art projects and neglects the laundry to cuddle up with a storybook. I want to be the mom who laughs so heartily with her kids that she forgets to clean the toilets, or the one who opts for pizza instead of cooking because comforting a crying child takes precedence. Here’s a glimpse into our home with 14 indicators that you might be a (great) mom. And to my own mother and mother-in-law, I assure you it’s not usually this disheveled!
- A sink overflowing with dirty dishes.
- A toilet paper roll that raises questions about its cleanliness.
- Breakfast remnants lingering on the table well into lunchtime.
- Bowls or baskets scattered randomly throughout the house.
- Toys invading your personal space.
- The discovery of odd items in unexpected places.
- Kitchen counters serving as a dumping ground for daily life.
- A stove that shows signs of meals cooked but not quite cleaned afterward.
- A refrigerator crammed with groceries shoved in during a chaotic moment.
- Your attempt at a balanced lunch, which often results in a simple snack.
- Milk left out, hoping it’s still fresh enough to return to the fridge.
- Laundry that lingers in baskets for days while you sift through it.
- A dining table cluttered with remnants of family life.
- A wish for your children to sleep long enough for you to recover from another day of the beautiful, chaotic motherhood journey.
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In summary, being a mom is filled with delightful chaos, and it’s in these moments of messiness that we truly thrive. Embracing the clutter and prioritizing your children’s needs over a spotless home can lead to a more fulfilling parenting experience.
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