I once prepared breakfast for little ones in pajamas, their legs swinging from the kitchen counter as I sliced grapes and filled sippy cups with juice. Complaints were a common theme—every child clamored for the blue cup.
Now, I find myself cooking multiple frozen pizzas to satisfy the appetites of these growing teens while still handling complaints, this time about the last Doritos bag or ice cream bars. Meals often get served to-go as they rush out the door, offering quick thanks just as the door clicks shut behind them.
My days have shifted from teaching them to walk, use baby signs, put on shoes, or pick up toys, to now assisting them with job applications, navigating resumes, and learning how to fill out a W-2. I find myself praying as they learn to drive, hoping for their safety on the roads.
Gone are the nights spent worrying about what they ate or if one of them would ever sleep through the night. Now, I lie awake concerned about their driving and the choices they make regarding their friends and health. The thought of my daughter not checking in daily feels daunting.
Once, I was their main source of food, comfort, and love, guiding my little troop through each day. Now, I watch them spread their wings, connect with friends, and seek support from other places.
Yet, despite these changes, I still serve as a hub for food (so much food!), comfort, and love. The nature of their need has changed, but they still rely on me.
As I navigate the multitude of questions they ask—now about the complexities of life rather than simple curiosities like why the sky is blue—I feel immense gratitude. I cherish every moment of motherhood, from cradling a newborn baby to watching my grown daughter as she prepares to leave.
We love. We teach. We serve. We worry. And we love some more. The more things change, the more they stay the same. Our children will always need us, just as we will need them. It’s bittersweet to let go, but it’s even sweeter when they choose to return home. Every moment is a blessing.
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In summary, parenting transforms significantly as kids grow, yet the fundamental need for support and connection remains. We adapt as our children do, sharing in their challenges and triumphs, always ready to offer love and guidance.
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