Picture this: moms everywhere should consider taking a step back and giving themselves a holiday break. Before you start debating about the magic of the season and how we need to create joyful moments for our kids, let’s take a moment to reflect on the craziness this year has thrown our way.
2020 has been a whirlwind of challenges and emotions. Did we really need to tackle a decade’s worth of events in just one year? From the pandemic and social justice movements to a historic election and virtual schooling—things have been overwhelming. It’s safe to say that we’ve all been hanging on by a thread as we navigate these last few months.
With many of us juggling remote work, virtual schooling, and constant family togetherness, moms have been carrying an extraordinary burden. We’ve been multitasking like never before, cleaning relentlessly, hiding laundry piles, and cooking countless meals. It feels like we’re stuck in a never-ending cycle, and honestly, I’m exhausted.
So, how are we expected to muster the energy for a festive holiday season? The truth is, we don’t have to! If you’ve ever fantasized about taking a break during the holidays, this is your year! There are no school performances to attend, no class parties to volunteer for, and work potlucks are off the table. Use this opportunity to skip sending holiday cards, avoid long lines for photos with Santa, and do your shopping online from the comfort of your couch.
Let’s be real: it’s time for dads to step up and share the load. Many moms have been managing work, school, meals, and tech issues while dads often retreat to their “focus” zones. This year, moms need time to unwind. Let dads handle the Christmas tree, decorations, and gift wrapping—who cares if it looks a little chaotic? It’s about getting things done without you having to do it all.
Stop feeling guilty about screen time or forcing yourself to fill the holiday break with crafts and activities. Skip the apple picking, avoid the Christmas tree farms, and let everyone enjoy their favorite shows and video games.
For those of you planning to go all out this holiday season to compensate for the chaos of 2020, I applaud your enthusiasm. But for many of us, it’s time to concede. We need a break, and rushing through the holidays will only leave us burnt out as we move into 2021.
This year, let’s lower the bar and take advantage of the challenges we’ve faced. Enjoy a holiday season where you do nothing, expect nothing, and savor every moment. If there was ever a year to take a break, it’s definitely 2020. Remember, you’ve earned it!
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Summary
This holiday season, moms should consider taking a much-needed break from their usual responsibilities. With the chaos of 2020 weighing heavily on everyone, it’s time to embrace a more relaxed approach. By letting dads step up and allowing yourself to skip the usual holiday madness, you can enjoy the season without added pressure. After all, you deserve it!
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