We’re all aware that comparing ourselves to others isn’t beneficial for our mental health. Allowing negativity to fester only harms us. But during a global pandemic, when it’s crucial for everyone to make sacrifices—wear masks, maintain social distance, and cancel even the most anticipated plans—how do we cope when we see others blatantly disregarding these responsibilities?
It’s hard not to feel resentment and anger when we’ve had to pull our kids from school, cancel birthday celebrations, and forgo trips to places like Disneyland, while our neighbor Jessica is throwing a large Thanksgiving gathering and hopping on a plane to the Caribbean the next day. Why do some seem to escape the same sacrifices we’ve been forced to make? It’s infuriating!
For those of us navigating these challenging emotions, we understand your frustration. It’s disheartening to witness so many people refusing to take the necessary steps to ensure our collective safety. Hopefully, a significant number of us will continue making the right choices so that one day, we can reclaim our normal lives, travel again, and enjoy those long-desired getaways.
Until that day arrives, we must remain steadfast in our commitment to prioritize safety and selflessness—even if our inconsiderate neighbors won’t.
I want to scream at those posting pictures of their nights out and vacations. Your actions are prolonging this pandemic, and it’s maddening.
Confessional #25805728: No, I don’t want to hear about your vacation. I had to quit my job to homeschool my kids. Just stop!
Confessional #25803807: I’m fed up with people complaining about football being canceled while they ignore mask mandates and continue to vacation. YOU are the problem. Stay home!
Confessional #25792356: I feel for those living in tourist states. As an Ohioan, seeing people flocking to NC, SC, and FL just infuriates me. They value their vacation over the health of others.
Confessional #25787659: It’s the ones who refuse to enjoy a game at home and insist on social gatherings every weekend, as well as those who prioritize vacations over public health, who are extending this nightmare. Thanks for nothing!
Confessional #25801524: I can’t help but feel envious of my sister-in-law who’s getting so much support and even vacations while my husband and I are struggling.
Confessional #25805645: I feel angry and jealous when I see people vacationing during a deadly pandemic.
Confessional #25792381: I post about our home improvements because we were responsible and skipped vacations this year, yet I still find myself jealous of those who didn’t.
Confessional #25791367: It’s exhausting to see families vacationing, acting like the pandemic doesn’t exist. I hate feeling this way because I can’t take those risks.
Confessional #25787182: I really need a vacation.
Confessional #25786866: Honestly, I just want to escape my kids for a little while.
The truth is, we all deserve a break, maybe even just some quiet time alone. But we know that safety comes first, and we genuinely care for those around us.
I try not to judge others too harshly, but it’s hard not to notice how many people are flocking to Florida this summer.
Confessional #25791973: I’m perplexed seeing friends on vacation while I feel like I’m the only one taking COVID seriously!
Confessional #25790481: I lost my job due to COVID and it feels like everyone else is moving forward while I’m stuck.
It’s disheartening to see friends and family traveling, enjoying life, and overlooking the reality of 2020.
Confessional #25797551: My mom, who was so worried about COVID, just announced a vacation with my sister. Seriously?!
Confessional #25787812: My parents went on holiday in March and brought COVID back to our town, leading to fatalities. So selfish!
Confessional #25787504: My mother-in-law is dining out unmasked and is coming to stay with us soon. I can’t deal with it.
Confessional #25793611: Before lockdown, I was active in my community and volunteered regularly. Now, my friends only reach out when they need childcare while they go on vacation.
Even more frustrating is when it’s our own family members flaunting their vacations. Seriously, Mom and Dad? You’re in the at-risk group we’re trying to protect, and yet you’re bragging about your getaway?
At the end of the day, harboring resentment doesn’t help anyone. This year has been tough, and it’s important to make room in our hearts for joy and gratitude. However, if you do feel frustrated while scrolling through social media, know you’re not alone. When this is all over, we’ll be able to proudly tell our kids, “We did the right thing. We put others first, and I’m proud of that.”
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Summary: The pandemic has brought about feelings of resentment and jealousy towards those who continue to vacation while many are making sacrifices for public health. It’s important to acknowledge these emotions while also focusing on the collective good. We must remain committed to making responsible choices, even if others do not.
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