The election of a woman as Vice President of the United States is a significant milestone. Many of us were captivated as Kamala Harris spoke not just to adults, but also to children across the nation. This moment holds immense value for all kids, and while parents may be celebrating with their daughters, it’s crucial to include sons in this celebration as well. This victory is just as much for them.
Often, we overlook that representation benefits not only those who are represented but also those who observe it. It’s essential to support one another in breaking barriers and embracing new opportunities. We are nurturing a generation of leaders who deserve equal chances, and we are also teaching them to be allies for one another.
This is a crucial moment every child should witness and feel part of, and here’s why: Representation challenges the status quo. The images of young girls watching someone who resembles them achieve the position of Vice President are powerful. But it’s equally impactful for boys to see a shift in the familiar images they often encounter. Engage boys in discussions and celebrations surrounding equality and the strong representation of women.
We need to cultivate boys who will emerge as strong allies.
Have you ever heard of Lucien Devereaux? He was a fictional writer who penned the tale of “Sleeping Beauty.” Many classic stories that young girls have been inspired by were crafted by men, reflecting their perspectives on women. These narratives have often set unrealistic standards for girls. While we empower girls to be confident and ambitious, it’s essential for boys to recognize and appreciate these qualities in them.
Transforming the “male gaze” can reshape the future. “The Male Gaze” refers to how media typically reflects the worldview of heterosexual men, often limiting the roles available to women. By changing the way boys and men perceive women, we can open doors for greater equality for girls.
So, what’s next?
It’s never too late to celebrate. Intentional conversations can enhance this experience. Here are a few questions to spark discussion:
- What are your thoughts on having a woman as Vice President? Why?
- How do you think Kamala Harris approaches her role?
- Can you think of any girls who might make a great Vice President or President someday? Why?
- What’s one thing you hope VP elect Kamala Harris will do to improve our world?
Celebrate this victory with your sons! Discuss why this achievement is worthy of excitement, allowing them to understand that this triumph is beneficial for everyone.
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Summary
Kamala Harris’ election as Vice President is a pivotal moment for all children, including boys. Celebrating this victory together fosters an environment of inclusion and allyship. Engaging boys in discussions about representation helps cultivate their understanding and support for gender equality.
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