The holiday season is often depicted as magical, but let’s be real: it’s the moms who sprinkle that magic everywhere. If we didn’t step in, who else would? The viral SNL sketch titled “Mom’s Christmas” resonated with many of us because it captures the shared exhaustion of mothers during this festive time.
Year after year, we tire ourselves out buying gifts for everyone—kids, partners, relatives, and friends—only to find ourselves on Christmas morning with a solitary gift to unwrap: a pair of slippers that we picked out and sent to our partner. Thanks, team, for just clicking “add to cart” once. What a gift. Hashtag blessed.
If you’re a kid or spouse reading this: take note. Next Christmas, please do better than a robe! Tidy up the house, surprise her with some new ornaments, or get her a chic pair of boots or a cozy scarf. A thoughtful coffee mug with a message like “You’re a badass mom” would also go a long way. She deserves to feel as cherished as she makes everyone else feel.
Sentiments from Moms
Here are some sentiments from moms feeling the weight of the holiday:
- “I can’t believe I’m getting nothing again this Christmas, just like my birthday. It’s as if he can’t manage to think of anyone but himself.”
- “There are plenty of gifts under the tree, but the only one for me is from my mom. I’m terrified my husband will forget again and I’ll end up crying in front of the kids.”
- “I thought he remembered what I wanted, but he just sent me a picture of it. He never actually buys me gifts. It’s heartbreaking to watch everyone else open theirs while I sit empty-handed.”
- “Why do I have to remind my partner to help set up the Christmas tree when he just makes everything miserable?”
Moms are fed up with the mental load that comes with the holidays. Christmas should not just be about clicking “add to cart” and buying a robe for Mom. Help with the decorations, clean the house, prepare a meal, or avoid inviting unannounced guests! The exhaustion is real—don’t you see how hard she’s working?
Christmas has lost its joy for many mothers, becoming a list of responsibilities piled onto an already full plate. For some, the holiday spirit feels more like a burden, and the joy of giving turns into resentment when there’s little appreciation in return.
What moms truly want are simple gestures of kindness. A cozy new sweater, warm socks, or even a day to themselves to read. When nothing is done, it hurts. It makes us dread the holidays, and we want to enjoy them again, but we need a little sprinkle of magic in return.
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In summary, moms are often the backbone of holiday cheer, yet they frequently feel overlooked and exhausted. They deserve recognition and support, not just gifts that lack thoughtfulness. A little effort can make a big difference in making moms feel cherished during the Christmas season.
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