How to Safely Hold a Baby: Because Yes, It's Normal to Be Nervous

Parenting

How to Safely Hold a Baby: Because Yes, It’s Normal to Be Nervous
by Emily Carter
Updated: May 6, 2021
Originally Published: Dec. 23, 2020

When I was nearing the end of my pregnancy, my partner and I attended a baby care class, back when in-person gatherings were the norm. As the youngest in my family, I had limited experience with infants and felt completely unprepared. The thought of holding a baby was intimidating; they seemed so delicate. What if I accidentally touched the soft spot on their head?

Newborns can feel as fragile as glass. They’re adorable, but holding one carries a heavy sense of responsibility. If you’re like many of us who occasionally break things, it’s natural to feel apprehensive about holding a tiny human. Rest assured, you’re not alone in your anxiety—many new parents feel that only the baby’s mom is truly qualified to hold them. However, there’s nothing quite like the experience of cradling a baby—their sweet scent, soft skin, and the way they gaze at you can melt your heart. Fortunately, you don’t have to miss out on this joy due to nervousness. With practice, you’ll gain confidence. So, whether you’re gearing up to be a parent or just an eager aunt or uncle, keep reading for essential tips on how to hold a baby securely.

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