I recently had a little mishap and accidentally grazed a mailbox with my car’s side mirror. My immediate reaction was to reach out to my dad; he always knows how to tackle such problems. True to form, he didn’t hesitate to join my husband in fixing it. My father is a true home-improvement whiz. He can assess a problem and devise a solution in no time. Whether it’s plumbing, mechanical issues, or anything industrial, he never shies away from a challenge. Even now, he remains the first call for all of his children’s dilemmas and, much like in our childhood, he is always ready to lend a hand without a hint of complaint.
Throughout my childhood, my dad would return home after long 60-hour weeks to microwave the meal my mom had left for him. He worked tirelessly, never voicing a complaint. Rising early and coming home late was his routine, all to provide for a wife and four kids. Thursdays were his cherished days off, where he would either work around the house or whip up dinner. His fried potatoes and special pasta salad are still family favorites! In his later years, that day off turned into a dedicated carpool service for his grandsons, which he treasures immensely.
Despite my husband and I being home due to the pandemic, my oldest son insisted on having his grandpa pick him up from school weekly. He takes this role seriously, always arriving first for afternoon pickups. He’s the unofficial school gossip, knowing all the latest news before I do. After dropping everyone off, he returns home for his afternoon nap.
In our childhood, it was about spelling tests, math, and flat tires. Now, it’s about carpools, mailboxes, and leaky sinks. I can’t imagine life without him. My father is not only quiet and kind but also witty and intelligent. He truly is the best, and I often find myself comparing my partners to him.
It’s often said that you end up marrying someone like your father, and in my case, that holds quite true. My husband’s top priority is providing for our family, thriving as an entrepreneur so he can enjoy snow days with our sons and take them to school in the morning. He treats our four-year-old daughter to “Cheeseburger Thursdays,” and they frequently document their outings with selfies.
However, this flexibility comes at a cost. He often works late into the night, on weekends, and even on holidays. Every day, he puts in the effort to give our family the life he dreams of. My father-in-law is equally dedicated and instilled the value of hard work in his son. I truly wish my children understood how fortunate they are.
Looking back, I wish I had recognized the significance of my dad’s hard work and sacrifices sooner. Becoming a parent changes your perspective, and you learn to appreciate everything your parents have done for you. It’s now my responsibility to be a great parent and to consciously choose what path I want to take. My sons are incredibly fortunate to have such outstanding role models. They have a lineage of exemplary men to emulate, and I have faith that they will rise to the occasion and make their dad – and grandpa – proud.
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In summary, this post is a heartfelt tribute to the incredible dads and grandads who shape our lives with their love, hard work, and dedication. Their commitment to family and the lessons they impart are invaluable treasures we carry forward.
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