In this edition of our advice column, we tackle a tough situation: what to do when your parents want to see your kids but refuse to get vaccinated against COVID-19? If you have questions of your own, feel free to reach out through our comments section.
Dear Home Insemination Kit,
My parents live about an hour away, and we haven’t had much face time with them over the past year. During the warmer months, we would enjoy outdoor picnics and walks, but with winter setting in and COVID cases rising, we’ve kept our distance. They do know how to use FaceTime, so that’s been our only connection. We also skipped family gatherings to prioritize safety. They often voice their frustration that their friends’ grandkids are around, claiming we’re being unreasonable. My siblings are allowing their kids to see our parents, but their children are older, while I have a toddler and an infant.
Recently, I mentioned that once my parents are vaccinated, they could visit us. They immediately dismissed it, saying they don’t trust the vaccine because it was developed too quickly and don’t plan on getting it anytime soon. They’re both in their sixties and should qualify for the next vaccination phase. I’m shocked by their viewpoint. What should I do? If they refuse to get vaccinated, I can’t feel safe letting them around my kids. Are my children going to grow up without knowing their grandparents? This is so frustrating!
I understand your predicament. It’s tough being the one adhering to strict COVID protocols when others around you seem less cautious. It’s clear that you want your parents to have a relationship with your children, as no one would willingly choose this distance. Unfortunately, many people are hesitant about the vaccine due to misinformation. The COVID vaccine was fast-tracked, not because of a lack of testing, but due to significant funding and urgency.
You might consider sharing accurate information with your parents if they’re open to it. However, if they’re entrenched in conspiracy theories, it could be a waste of energy. It might also be worth asking them why they fear the vaccine more than the virus itself.
Many states are offering online appointment scheduling for vaccinations. You could suggest, “Hey, I saw that the pharmacy near you has the vaccine available for your age group. Would you like help scheduling an appointment?” Sometimes, logistical barriers can be the main issue for older individuals.
Ultimately, you can only hope that their desire to see your kids will encourage them to reconsider. But also be prepared for the possibility that they may not change their minds soon. This year has taught us that sometimes those we expect to be understanding can disappoint us.
For more insights on navigating family dynamics during these times, check out this insightful blog post.
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Summary:
This advice column addresses the frustration of a parent whose elderly parents refuse to get vaccinated against COVID-19 while expressing a desire to see their grandchildren. The column provides suggestions for open communication, sharing facts about the vaccine, and exploring logistical assistance for making vaccination appointments. It emphasizes balancing safety with family relationships and preparing for potential disappointment in their decisions.
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