There’s a Significant Connection Between Gender Stereotypes and Sexual Assault — Let’s Discuss It

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Lately, I’ve been delving into period dramas for entertainment, with standout selections like “Bridgerton” on Netflix and the extensive audiobook of Tolstoy’s “Anna Karenina.” While advancements in clothing, technology, and transportation are evident, some societal issues, particularly gender stereotypes in dating and relationships, remain unchanged.

We may not have traditional courtship practices or arranged marriages anymore, but there’s still an expectation for men to pursue women, while women are often left waiting for a proposal. It’s almost as if I was watching relationships from the 1800s rather than contemporary shows like “The Bachelor.” It’s amusing yet frustrating to see how entrenched these heteronormative ideas still are — and the impact is serious. This power dynamic plays a significant role in perpetuating sexual violence.

Sexual assault fundamentally revolves around power. Boys raised to conform to traditional masculine ideals are more inclined to exhibit sexually aggressive behavior. Those who subscribe to rigid gender norms often view sexual dominance as a display of strength. It’s crucial to note that while I’m addressing these issues in binary, cisgender terms, transgender boys and more masculine individuals face similar pressures as their cisgender counterparts, as do transgender girls and those who present femininely.

Revising societal expectations for all children, regardless of gender, can help diminish harmful beliefs surrounding sex and relationships. This begins with teaching kids early on that any toy, article of clothing, or hairstyle is suitable for any gender. We must foster mixed-gender friendships without imposing inappropriate sexual implications, such as labeling a boy a “heartbreaker” or suggesting that a girl is “too pretty” to be free.

Promoting the idea that any gender can pursue any career and earn equal pay is essential. Open discussions about how sexism underpins our patriarchal society are necessary for change. If both men and women tolerate sexist remarks and unwanted advances, women may not recognize their experiences as assault, and men may feel empowered to continue their harmful behavior. Empowering women in homes and workplaces reduces their vulnerability to sexual violence. When women aren’t afraid of losing their jobs, homes, or children, they are more likely to seek help. Similarly, if men realize their manipulative tactics have no power, they may refrain from using them.

From the moment of birth, through gender reveal parties to locker rooms and sexual education in high school, children absorb messages about masculinity and femininity. Girls are often seen as emotional and nurturing, taught to seek validation through their appearance and relationships with men. Meanwhile, boys are encouraged to be tough and protective, internalizing the idea that they will be the head of the household. This toxic dynamic, combined with locker room talk and the objectification of women, can lead boys to feel superior to girls, viewing a girl’s virginity as something to claim.

While it’s essential to teach boys to respect a girl’s “no,” girls also need to be empowered to express their own desires. Consent is crucial, but we must also normalize women expressing their sexual agency. If a boy sleeps with numerous partners, he’s often celebrated, while the same behavior in a girl is stigmatized. This double standard must end. We need to stop shaming women for their sexual choices and allow them to reclaim their sexuality.

If we don’t actively dismantle gender stereotypes, we risk perpetuating a culture that condones sexual violence. Whether the assault comes from a stranger, a partner, or someone manipulating a situation, the underlying issue is control. Coerced sex is still rape, even in marriage. To combat sexual violence, we must work toward gender equality, shifting expectations and redistributing power to foster respect.

I recognize that this is a deeply rooted issue — consider “Anna Karenina” for historical perspectives on how women have been blamed for men’s infidelities — but we can begin to untangle these damaging narratives.

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In summary, addressing gender stereotypes is crucial for reducing sexual violence. By reshaping societal expectations for all genders and fostering open conversations about consent and agency, we can work towards a more equitable future.