Five Top Parenting Choices I’ve Made So Far

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Parenting is a challenging journey, and taking a moment to appreciate our decisions is rare. As February unfolds—the month of love—I’m choosing to reflect on five of the most impactful parenting choices my partner, Jake, and I have made for our family. These insights might spark fresh ideas for you or reaffirm that you’re doing much better than you think. Let’s dive in!

1. Encouraging Our Kids to Start a YouTube Channel

When my five-year-old, Alex, timidly asked if he could create a YouTube channel, I hesitated. His soft voice made it hard for even Grandma to catch what he was saying. Nonetheless, I decided to hit record on the iPad. Watching the video back, Alex realized he needed to articulate his thoughts more clearly. With the camera as his tool, he found his voice. Now, at eleven, he confidently shares his stories, showcasing his creativity and boosting his self-esteem. Supporting him in this venture has been one of our best decisions.

2. Setting Clear Guidelines for Extracurricular Activities

Music has proven benefits for cognitive development, as studies reveal its positive impact on brain function. After consulting with our pediatric neurologist about our son’s developmental needs, we made piano lessons mandatory. This requirement isn’t just about practice; it’s about fostering a love for music in a fun environment. We also encourage sports participation, allowing our children to explore various activities, from climbing to skiing. This balance of music and physical engagement creates lasting family memories while teaching valuable lessons about commitment.

3. Starting a Paper Route

When our eldest son, Ben, suggested a paper route, Jake and I were unsure of his readiness. However, this experience has provided him with opportunities to develop social skills and understand financial responsibility. He learned the value of hard work as he saved for a $70 Lego set. The shared family tasks—like bagging newspapers on a rainy day—have also brought us closer together. This paper route decision has enriched our family life significantly.

4. Choosing to Homeschool

Before the pandemic hit, we opted to homeschool our son, Ben, for the 2020-2021 school year. As schools transitioned to remote learning, our decision proved beneficial. Ben thrived in the structured yet flexible environment, supported by a distance education program. We even transitioned our younger child, Emma, to homeschooling despite a few bumps along the way. The ability to tailor our schedule and integrate activities like paper routes has been invaluable. This choice has provided a safe and supportive learning space.

5. Investing in an All-Season Camper

With our youngest involved in hockey, the costs of hotels during out-of-town tournaments were mounting. Our solution? An all-season camper. This investment not only offers budget-friendly accommodations but also creates opportunities for family adventures. We can explore new places, create memories around campfires, and bond over shared experiences, making this a top parenting decision for our family.

In compiling this list, a common theme emerged: each choice has fostered family unity and connection. As Michael J. Fox aptly said, “Family is not an important thing, it’s everything.” Nurturing our family values and building trust are what keep us grounded. As parents, we continually strive to make the best choices with the knowledge we have. These decisions represent our commitment to our family’s growth and happiness.

So, what are your parenting stories?

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