I welcomed my last child at the age of 35, and I must admit, it felt more challenging than when I had my first at 27. Perhaps it was due to my body being older or the fact that I was already worn out from parenting two other little ones. Whatever the cause, I definitely noticed a dip in my overall energy levels. My doctor, a charming gentleman in his seventies, casually labeled my experience as a “geriatric pregnancy,” suggesting that some fatigue was just part of the package.
While the term “geriatric pregnancy” wasn’t exactly uplifting, it didn’t alarm me either. My traditional doctor still uses that terminology, but many healthcare professionals now refer to pregnancies in women over 35 as “advanced maternal age.” Regardless of the label, I felt reassured knowing that my 35-year-old body was far from being in crisis, and I was eagerly anticipating the arrival of my daughter.
Curious about how my experience might differ this time, I inquired with my doctor and did some research. Here are some insights I gathered regarding “geriatric pregnancy,” or advanced maternal age:
Conception Might Take Longer
The American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists states that healthy couples in their 20s and early 30s have about a 25% chance of conceiving each month, but by age 40, that drops to around 10%. While patience may be essential, most women can still conceive without medical issues.
Increased Risk of Miscarriage
This can be a daunting thought, but it’s important to stay calm. Women under 35 face about a 15% risk of miscarriage, which escalates to 20-35% after 35. While cautious optimism is advisable, the probability of a healthy baby still outweighs the risk of miscarriage. The statistics are even higher after 45, yet approximately half of all pregnancies in that age group result in full-term births.
Higher Chances of Multiples
Some researchers suggest that older women might be more likely to conceive twins, potentially due to evolutionary factors. So, older parents should be prepared for surprises during that first ultrasound.
Elevated Risk of Common Pregnancy Conditions
Research from the Mayo Clinic indicates that older pregnant individuals might be at a slightly higher risk for gestational diabetes or high blood pressure. However, this doesn’t mean complications are inevitable, and many can still enjoy a healthy pregnancy with proper care.
Additional Monitoring from Healthcare Providers
Your doctor may recommend extra tests like an early glucose screening or additional ultrasounds. A blood test panel for genetic anomalies could also be advised. More monitoring can provide peace of mind and help you and your baby stay healthy.
Potential for a C-Section
While not guaranteed, older expectant mothers might have an increased likelihood of requiring a C-section. Many women in this age bracket do have uncomplicated births, but being informed about potential C-section rates is wise.
Beyond the medical facts, personal experiences offer valuable insights. I spoke to several mothers who had children after 35, and here’s what they shared:
“I experienced one of those ‘advanced maternal age’ challenges with gestational diabetes during my last pregnancy. Thankfully, I managed it well through diet alone, and my baby was born perfectly healthy.” – Sarah M.
“My pregnancies at 38 and 41 felt nothing like ‘geriatric.’ I had a healthy experience and quick labors. Trust your body; it can do amazing things!” – Jessica T.
“Forty is the new twenty-five when it comes to motherhood. Don’t let the term ‘geriatric’ mislead you. Older moms bring wisdom, and everything will be just fine.” – Emily R.
If you’re expecting or planning to conceive after 35, rest assured that you and your baby can be healthy and happy. While there may be increased risks, the chances of a smooth pregnancy are still very favorable. Communicate openly with your healthcare team, make informed choices, and enjoy the journey of pregnancy.
For more information on the topic, check out this other blog post, and if you’re looking for guidance on fertility journeys, Make a Mom provides valuable resources. Additionally, the NHS has excellent information on pregnancy and home insemination.
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Summary:
Geriatric pregnancy, or advanced maternal age, refers to pregnancies in women over 35. While there are some increased risks associated with this age group, many women have healthy pregnancies and births. Engaging with healthcare providers and staying informed can help manage potential challenges.

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