When it comes to pregnancy, I thought I had encountered every possible scenario. With three kids already—aged 8, 7, and 3—I’ve dealt with swollen ankles, expanding feet, backaches, heartburn, skin rashes, stretch marks, placenta previa, and both planned and emergency C-sections. So, when I found out I was expecting my fourth child, I anticipated it would be a routine experience devoid of surprises.
That was until I reached the 23-week mark, when I felt something completely new. While sitting at the kitchen table, I noticed a pressure in the lower part of my belly that felt somewhat normal; I assumed my little one was just stretching. However, the sensation quickly shifted lower, and I started experiencing quick, sharp jolts in my pelvis. It didn’t quite hurt, but it was definitely uncomfortable.
“What on earth is happening?” I thought to myself, hoping that standing up would alleviate the strange pangs. Instead, as I walked around the kitchen, the sensations intensified, coming in waves every 30 seconds.
A sudden, powerful pressure hit me, which made me feel like something was about to fall out. I rushed to the bathroom, half-expecting to see limbs protruding. “Great, I’m going to end up on a reality show for bizarre home births,” I joked nervously to myself. Once I confirmed that nothing was amiss, I did what any 21st-century mom would do—I turned to the internet for answers.
Typing out my symptoms, I stumbled upon something called “lightning crotch,” described as sharp and fleeting pelvic pain during the third trimester. Not exactly what I expected at this stage of my pregnancy! The next few articles I read, however, were about preterm labor, which sent me into a frenzy of self-examination. I started checking all the boxes: pressure here, discomfort there, maybe a little discharge. At that moment, I regretted my internet search; I knew I wouldn’t learn anything useful, yet I’d probably do it again next time.
My partner and I decided it was best to contact the doctor—better safe than sorry. I explained my bizarre symptoms to the nurse, apologizing profusely for how insane I sounded. After consulting with my OB, I was advised to come in for a check-up.
As I drove to the hospital, I dreaded having to explain my symptoms to yet another person. “What brings you in today?” the staff asked. “Well, it feels like I’m being punched in the pelvic area, and something might be falling out,” I replied sheepishly. Thankfully, my OB took it seriously. She measured my belly and checked for dilation, which would be concerning at 23 weeks. Fortunately, everything appeared normal.
Curious about the strange sensations, I asked, “Could this be contractions?” My OB responded, “It could be, but not all contractions are painful.” I was shocked; after three pregnancies, I had never considered that I might not recognize the signs of preterm labor.
I was taken to Labor & Delivery, where I was hooked up to a monitor to track the baby’s heartbeat and any contractions. As it turned out, I was indeed experiencing Braxton Hicks contractions—totally normal for this stage of pregnancy, but still puzzling to me. I asked a nurse why these false labor pains were happening so early and why it felt like something was falling out of me. She simply said, “Every pregnancy is different, and weird body things just happen.”
Feeling relieved that it wasn’t preterm labor, I was reminded to listen to my body and return to the hospital if contractions persisted every ten minutes. The OB also provided me with a fact sheet on preterm labor, which was far more reliable than any online search. A shoutout to the healthcare professionals who have seen it all, taking the time to check on every odd symptom and share their knowledge with expectant parents!
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In summary, my fourth pregnancy has been anything but predictable, filled with unexpected sensations that have taught me that every pregnancy can be uniquely bizarre. Even after three children, I learned new things about my body and pregnancy, proving there’s always more to discover.
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