Hello, my love. Here we are, navigating through a pandemic that took me by surprise when I first learned I was carrying you. This past year has been filled with dark clouds, yet you, my sweet child, are the brightest ray of sunshine in my life.
There’s so much to discuss about this year, but today, I want to share my thoughts on what “normal life” means. You may have heard us mention it often—phrases like, “When this is all over…” or “After COVID.” Your siblings often say, “When the germs are gone…”
For us, normal life includes family gatherings, playdates, shopping trips, and vibrant birthday parties. It’s about enjoying pizza at restaurants and browsing through bookstores and children’s museums. That’s our version of normal.
But for you, my pandemic baby, your normal is defined by the pandemic itself. You entered a world where masks are a norm. The very first time you were placed in my arms, I was wearing one. Your arrival was marked by quietness—Christmas without family, a year devoid of travel, and only a small handful of people who have had the chance to hold you.
Yet, since your birth in August, I cherish the time we’ve had together. Our life is not hurried; it’s almost in slow motion, and I think you enjoy it.
As we yearn for our old normal, I wonder how you will adapt when things change. When that time comes, I eagerly anticipate the wonderful experiences waiting for you—the people who will finally get to meet you and appreciate your adorable cheeks and infectious smile.
It’s perfectly okay if it takes you a little while to adjust to this new normal. It took all of us a long time to adapt, and honestly, a year later, I’m still figuring it out. You, my dear, are just beginning your journey.
So, whenever our “normal life” returns, know that it’s absolutely fine to crave the comfort of quiet moments and just want your family close. It’s okay if the new experiences feel overwhelming. We will navigate this newness together, just as we will face every version of normal life throughout our journey.
I have faith that you will embrace this transition with remarkable strength and grace. Why? Because I know that pandemic babies like you are some of the toughest out there. Resilience runs deep in your veins. You arrived into a world filled with uncertainties but brought light and joy to our lives. Keep shining your beautiful light, my darling.
With all my love,
Your devoted parent
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