Girls just want to have fun… ethically.
Yes, feminist porn is real, and here’s how to discover it. Spoiler: it often comes with a price, and you should embrace that.
In a previous piece, I discussed how I turned to porn to explore my own sexuality. While crafting a book featuring two female characters in love — despite having no personal experience in that realm — I relied on porn to write authentic sex scenes. One commenter, clearly lacking context, sarcastically questioned my approach to learning about realistic sex through porn.
My immediate reaction was defensive. Surely, there exists porn that showcases authentic, consensual, and sex-positive experiences. However, while I was equating the porn I consumed — which aimed for realism and was not designed for the male gaze — with feminist porn, I ultimately misunderstood the concept. The truth is, to genuinely support feminist porn, you need to pay for it. I had not been doing that, and I was mistaken.
If we genuinely care about the well-being of the performers in the videos we consume — meaning we want them to be safe, respected, and fairly compensated — we must invest in our porn. Free content from various “tube” sites often means we are viewing stolen material. We have no insight into the production process, the treatment of performers, or whether they received fair compensation. In most cases, they definitely are not benefiting from our casual views.
Moreover, many of these free platforms host problematic content, including issues related to child sex trafficking and exploitation. Until these sites take responsibility for their content and ensure that performers receive fair compensation, it is best to avoid them.
Top Ten Places to Find Feminist Porn Ethically
Now that we’re aligned, here’s a curated list of my top ten places to find enticing feminist porn that aligns with your fantasies — ethically. A heads up: none of the links below are suitable for work.
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The Indie Porn Revolution
Originally known as “NoFauxxx.com,” this platform has championed the creation of porn that resonates with women, artists, and queer individuals since 2002. They offer flexible membership plans ranging from five days to multi-month subscriptions, with content that spans from queer BDSM to ballet. -
Pink Label TV
Exploring their site reveals a diverse range of content, including a strong selection of free feminist porn, educational resources, and a segment titled “The Feminist Porn Gaze.” -
Literotica.com
As the sole completely free option on this list, Literotica is perfect for those who appreciate well-crafted X-rated stories. Their collection is curated to ensure quality writing, and you can browse by interest. -
Bright Desire
Celebrating the essence of sex, this award-winning site emphasizes intimacy, humor, connection, and genuine pleasure. Their collection features real couples and a variety of erotic narratives, available through 30 or 90-day memberships. -
XConfessions
Run by Erica Lust, this indie site transforms users’ fantasies into films. Subscriptions grant access to a diverse catalog of 250 films, with a commitment to the ethical treatment of performers. -
Good Dyke Porn
For just $9.99 a month, this queer-owned platform offers a wide range of inclusive content, showcasing real dykes across various identities and sexual expressions. -
Dane Jones
This site leans more mainstream but focuses on sensuality, romance, and female pleasure, featuring both free content and subscription services. -
A Four Chambered Heart
Ideal for those who appreciate artistic porn, this site offers stunning erotic visuals and films that defy conventional expectations while remaining steamy. They boast a transparency statement that distinguishes them as one of the most ethical creators in this space. -
Crash Pad Series
Part of Pink and White Productions, this series produces queer-friendly adult content that reflects the nuances of modern gender identities and fluid sexualities. They offer monthly subscriptions with referral discounts. -
OnlyFans
This platform allows you to directly support performers. While there may still be risks of exploitation, OnlyFans includes identity verification to help alleviate some concerns. Subscribe to your favorite performers and contribute to their financial well-being. -
Sssh.com
As a pioneer in ethical porn, Sssh.com promotes female pleasure and features content with genuine character development. Their surveys allow user feedback to shape future content, and they emphasize fairness and respect for all involved.
This is by no means a comprehensive list. The takeaway is that many of us enjoy porn, and there’s no shame in it. However, if we derive pleasure from the labor of others, we must ensure they are compensated and cared for. If not, can we truly call ourselves feminists?
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Summary
This article explores the existence of feminist porn, emphasizing the importance of paying for ethical content to support performers. It lists various platforms where consumers can find feminist porn while ensuring that creators are compensated fairly.
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