If You Want to Support the Asian Community, Start by Learning to Pronounce Asian Names

In the aftermath of tragic events like the Atlanta shootings that claimed the lives of six Korean women, many people are seeking ways to support the AAPI (Asian American Pacific Islander) community. While financial contributions are important, there are other meaningful actions you can take, such as making a genuine effort to pronounce Asian names correctly. It might seem straightforward, but many individuals don’t prioritize this, and mispronouncing someone’s name can lead to unnecessary emotional distress.

Understanding Name-Based Microaggressions

Dr. Anjali Kapoor, a psychologist affiliated with a local medical center and an adjunct professor at a nearby university, highlights that name-based microaggressions are a specific manifestation of a larger issue. These can include assigning nicknames without consent, making assumptions based on a person’s name, and teasing related to cultural aspects of a name. Dr. Kapoor’s research focuses on these microaggressions, particularly those faced by individuals with South Asian names, stemming from her own experiences in childhood. “From a young age, I felt compelled to make my teachers feel comfortable, rather than them putting in the effort to pronounce my name correctly,” she shared.

The Importance of Pronouncing Names Correctly

Similarly, Alex Chen (pronounced ah-lex chen), a postdoctoral researcher at a prestigious university, studies the importance of ethnic name pronunciation. He asserts that consistently mispronouncing an ethnic name is a form of microaggression that conveys a sense of insignificance. Failing to learn a person’s name properly communicates that they are not a priority and diminishes their worth.

It’s natural to be unsure about how to pronounce someone’s name, but making an effort is essential. All it takes is asking the individual how to say their name correctly without excessive apologies. They likely have encountered this before, and your effort will be appreciated. If you forget, feel free to ask again; they will value your genuine attempt to learn.

The Emotional Impact of Name Mispronunciation

Dr. Kapoor’s research indicates that many individuals feel a sense of anxiety and dread when introducing themselves due to the challenges surrounding their names. Some even choose to alter their names to ease interactions with those in authority, while others adapt for their own comfort. This shouldn’t be the case; Asian individuals shouldn’t feel compelled to change their names to fit in.

Recent findings from Chen reveal that around half of Chinese international students in U.S. colleges have adopted Anglicized names, often linked to lower self-esteem and well-being. Reflecting on my own experiences, I recall classmates who modified their names to simplify pronunciation for others—something that now frustrates me.

The Issue with Nicknames

Nicknames can also create tension, especially when imposed without consent. While some individuals might prefer a nickname, many with Asian names find themselves assigned one without a choice. This practice can be deeply disrespectful and is considered a microaggression.

It’s crucial to never assign a nickname without permission. Instead, strive to learn their given name, and gently inquire about any preferred alternatives. Always respect their wishes, as not everyone will advocate for themselves in this matter.

The Impact on Job Opportunities

Moreover, research indicates that nearly half of Asian and Black job applicants alter their names in written form to avoid ethnic markers, significantly affecting their chances of being called back for interviews.

As a Black woman with an Arabic name, I resonate with the struggles of individuals with Asian names. I remember wishing I had a name that was easier to pronounce, often feeling embarrassed when teachers stumbled over it.

Supporting Students with Diverse Names

In a piece for an educational publication, former teacher Maya Patel provides valuable insights on how educators can better support students with diverse names. She emphasizes the importance of preparation and suggests engaging activities to help others learn correct pronunciations.

Conclusion

In today’s world, there’s no excuse for mispronouncing Asian names. Resources are widely available, and if you’re uncertain, simply ask. Properly pronouncing someone’s name demonstrates respect, which is what everyone deserves.

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In summary, learning to pronounce Asian names correctly is a simple yet powerful way to show solidarity with the Asian community. It reflects respect and acknowledgment of their identity, fostering a more inclusive environment for everyone.