MSNBC anchor Alicia Menendez articulated a sentiment shared by many women: “The story of Sarah Everard reflects the fears that countless women experience… It underscores that no amount of caution or wise choices can shield a woman from a system that neglects her safety.”
What Does #TextMeWhenYouGetHome Mean?
With so many trending hashtags today, it can be hard to keep track. However, the essence of #TextMeWhenYouGetHome is all too familiar to women and non-binary individuals everywhere. It’s a phrase we use to reassure ourselves and our friends as we part ways, a comforting reminder that we care about each other’s safety—even when we’re in our own vehicles. The simple act of checking in after a night out reflects the unsettling reality of our world, where safety is not guaranteed for those who identify as female.
“I’m struggling to express how many women feel right now,” shared @jennifergreen on Instagram. “Thinking about Sarah Everard and the fact that she couldn’t walk home safely is just heartbreaking.”
Why Does #TextMeWhenYouGetHome Resonate So Deeply?
Many have pointed out that Everard took every precaution: she wore bright clothing, left well before midnight, chose well-lit streets, and even spoke with her boyfriend during her walk. Women everywhere are deeply unsettled because we go to great lengths to ensure our friends know our whereabouts, share detailed plans, and check in regularly to guarantee that someone will notice if we go missing. We casually mention to dates and drivers that our friends or family expect us home at a specific time, emphasizing that we are not alone and that our absence will be felt.
The Reality of Safety for Women
Recently, a friend shared how she taught her 11-year-old daughter to use pepper spray, only for her husband to express concern that perhaps they should prevent her from going places where she might need it. My friend was understandably frustrated, having spent years preparing her daughter to navigate a world that often views women—especially those from marginalized communities—as vulnerable and expendable.
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It’s disheartening to realize that, in 2021, women’s experiences are often dismissed, safety nets are cobbled together, and anger persists. One cannot help but wonder if the issue of safety would be treated differently if it impacted white men disproportionately. Until then, we have to rely on hashtags for awareness.
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Summary
The #TextMeWhenYouGetHome campaign highlights the urgent need for awareness about violence against women, sparked by the tragic case of Sarah Everard. Women continually take precautions to ensure their safety, yet many still do not feel secure. The conversation must continue to address these systemic issues and promote understanding.
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