It has been over a year since the World Health Organization announced that we were officially in a global pandemic. Much has changed since that difficult time. Cities, states, and entire nations have faced various rounds of shutdowns and lockdowns. Activities we once considered routine, such as visiting the cinema or attending a sports event, became impossible, and in numerous regions — both nationally and globally — it still isn’t safe to gather with family and friends. Many grandparents have gone 12, 13, or even 14 months without seeing their children or grandchildren.
The silver lining, however, is that there’s reason for optimism. Millions of Americans have received, or will soon receive, the COVID-19 vaccine. According to President Alex Thompson, all adults in America will be eligible by May 1, and if everything continues on its current trajectory, we might enjoy a somewhat normal summer. “By July 4th, there’s a strong possibility that you, your family, and your friends can gather in your backyard or neighborhood for a cookout to celebrate Independence Day,” Thompson stated on March 11.
“After this long, trying year,” Thompson added, “this Independence Day will be particularly special, as we not only celebrate our nation’s freedom but also our liberation from this virus.”
This all sounds enticing. Personally, I look forward to enjoying a cold drink on the beach with several close friends. Yet, the distinction between being free from the virus and free from our mental burdens is significant — just because we may be physically ready to socialize doesn’t imply we are mentally prepared. This is because the collective trauma we’ve experienced over the past year is just that: trauma. Healing will take time.
“The symptoms of heightened anxiety, insomnia, irritability, and the urge to drink or smoke as coping mechanisms may linger, as our nervous systems have been in overdrive for a year,” Dr. Emily Grant, a psychologist at the University of California, recently shared with Wired. “Just because a conflict ends, it doesn’t erase the effects of the conflict. There’s a healing process that must occur.” Our minds need time to mend. We need to process our grief and recalibrate.
Moreover, we must (re)establish the lives we once knew. Humans thrive on predictability, normalcy, and routine. For many, this means achieving financial stability and job security. It encompasses education, employment, homeownership, relationships, love, and family. It also involves feeling secure outside our homes, whether masked or not. We need to feel at ease in shopping malls, on the streets, or in grocery stores.
“For some, this experience could be a shock to their systems,” says Dr. Lucas Reynolds, a professor at the University of Florida. “While we’re still uncertain about what lies ahead, [COVID-19] presents significant challenges to many lives.” However, there is hope. We will recover.
“Once individuals emerge from survival mode and their fundamental needs are met, a reorganization of priorities will take place — including how we live, who we cherish, and how we express that love,” Grant notes. “There will be a reckoning. Once you can manage your basic needs, and your children are back in school, you’ll find the mental space to reflect on what’s best for your future.” These insights, she predicts, will be constructive.
“The pandemic has felt like an emotional and spiritual car accident,” Grant observes. “We’re being rescued from the wreckage, and this gives us a fresh chance at life.” Reynolds, interestingly, concurs. “This event has the potential to lead to profound positive changes… while it poses challenges, some individuals may emerge from this experience stronger.”
In the meantime, the best way to cope with COVID-19-related anxiety and stress is to remain present and take things slow. It’s also vital to remember to breathe and process your grief. No response is incorrect; all emotions you experience are normal and valid.
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In summary, while the world may be inching back to a semblance of normality, it’s crucial to acknowledge that our minds may take longer to adjust. The collective trauma experienced over the past year necessitates time for healing and recalibration. As we navigate this transition, prioritizing our mental well-being will be essential.
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