As someone who has grown increasingly concerned about the messages conveyed in mainstream pop music, I find myself bombarded with lyrics that celebrate objectification and substance abuse. The airwaves are filled with songs that promote a culture of misogyny and blatant sexuality, which can be quite alarming, especially as a parent.
I have a 10-year-old, Max, who has developed a fascination with pop music and possesses a remarkable ability to decipher every lyric (whereas I often find myself saying, “What did they just say?”). We maintain strict parental controls on digital devices and limit screen time, ensuring that the content they consume is age-appropriate. I frequently refer to Common Sense Media to assess movies and books for suitability. However, when it comes to radio, I feel like I’ve stepped into a chaotic environment where my control is limited.
Without access to satellite radio’s curated options, I find myself in a bit of a bind. My family isn’t interested in oldies or Christian music, and my kids definitely don’t tune into NPR. Max, in particular, has taken to listening to the radio constantly, and on more than one occasion, I’ve discovered the laundry room radio in his room. The DJ’s commentary can often be as crude as the songs themselves, prompting me to return it quietly.
While it may seem that this issue is new, it is not. I remember when my older siblings would order their vinyl records from Columbia House. My mother would listen carefully and critique the lyrics, disapprovingly noting, “This song is about a prostitute,” as she listened to The Police’s “Roxanne.” My siblings often managed to convince her that the song had a redeeming message, demonstrating the importance of dialogue around music.
The reality is that tweens will inevitably encounter inappropriate content, whether at school or at home, particularly on the radio. Recognizing this, I am trying to shift our listening habits to be more collaborative. Just as my mother encouraged us to drive with her to learn, I believe that engaging in conversations about the music we hear can offer valuable lessons.
By listening together, I can help Max critically analyze the raunchy lyrics and questionable DJ comments. While I might change the station at times, I aim to be the voice in his head that encourages him to think critically about what he hears. For instance, he has pointed out the difference between a woman asserting “you don’t own me” versus one singing “I wanna look good for you.” He is right in noting the empowerment in the former, and hopefully, he will come to understand that it shouldn’t even be necessary for a woman to say that to her partner.
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In summary, while the challenge of navigating pop music’s inappropriate content is ongoing, fostering open conversations can prepare our children to engage with the world thoughtfully. Instead of shielding them entirely, we can guide them to understand and critique the messages they encounter.
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