Five Fierce Females Who Shaped My ’80s Experience

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The ’80s were a unique era for many of us. We craved perfectly styled bangs for our mall outings while opting for a “business in the front, party in the back” vibe with our hair. Leg warmers were a must, yet we creatively transformed our sweatshirts. Neon colors adorned our wardrobes, complementing our scrunchies, alongside the necessity of stonewashed denim. Not to mention, we proudly wore multiple Swatch watches at once.

In all honesty, we were navigating a confusing landscape. It’s surprising I emerged from that decade at all. We drew social and romantic insights from characters like the Valley Girls, Diane Courts, and the iconic John Hughes film personas. But what happens when we stepped away from the “Pretty in Pink” phase?

A glance at ’80s cinema reveals a list of the “Top 50 Movie Characters” from that time, featuring only three women: Alex Forrest from Fatal Attraction, Veronica Sawyers from Heathers, and Jessica Rabbit, the animated seductress. The rest of the roster is filled with bizarre characters, including a talking dog and a menacing doll. While I have a fondness for Heathers and Fatal Attraction, it’s essential to highlight the incredible women who defied the stereotypes and served as role models during my teenage years. Here’s a look at five remarkable women who inspired me through the ’80s:

1. Alex, Jane, and Sukie from The Witches of Eastwick

This trio, portrayed by iconic actresses Cher, Susan Gardner, and Michelle Parker, are small-town outcasts who inadvertently summon a devil in the form of Daryl Van Horne (played by Jack Nicholson). As they become enchanted by him, they soon recognize that they are losing control and take charge of their destinies. Honestly, I longed to reside in that enchanting house with my best friends and share in their adventures.

Lesson learned: A man should never define your worth, and if someone claims to be your only source of fulfillment, run for the hills.

2. Ann from Sex, Lies, and Videotape

Portrayed by Andie MacDowell, Ann is a sexually repressed housewife trapped in a loveless marriage. Her husband, played by Peter Gallagher, is having an affair with her sister. Enter James Spader’s character, Graham, whose peculiar hobby of videotaping women discussing their sexuality becomes a catalyst for change. In the end, Ann emerges as the most empowered character.

Lesson learned: Strength can often come from those who appear the most vulnerable. And James Spader? Absolutely captivating.

3. Elizabeth from 9½ Weeks

While the film is famous for its steamy scenes, it’s the character of Elizabeth, played by Kim Basinger, who stands out. She is drawn into a passionate yet tumultuous relationship with the enigmatic John, played by the stunning Mickey Rourke. Their dynamic explores the boundaries of passion and emotional complexity. Ultimately, Elizabeth realizes her strength and leaves, altering the course of their lives.

Lesson learned: Embracing one’s desires is vital, but recognizing a relationship that masquerades as love is equally important.

4. Annie Savoy from Bull Durham

Susan Gardner shines again as Annie Savoy, a knowledgeable baseball fan who mentors players for the Durham Bulls. Her romantic entanglement with the charming Tim Robbins and the more mature Kevin Costner adds layers to her character. Annie’s ability to engage in sizzling chemistry while discussing baseball proves her depth.

Lesson learned: Enjoyment in intimacy is essential, and your sexuality is your own—focus on your journey.

5. Ellen Ripley from Aliens

There’s only one Ellen Ripley, magnificently portrayed by Sigourney Weaver. As the last survivor of the doomed Nostromo from the original Alien, Ripley is awakened decades later to confront the terrifying creatures once more. Her resilience and determination to protect those she loves make her a formidable figure in cinema history.

Lesson learned: As a leader, you do what’s right, and as a protector, you fiercely defend your loved ones.

In summary, the ’80s showcased independent women who were not only strong but also sexy and tenacious. However, I still find myself enchanted by the idea of living in that magical house with my best friends and Daryl Van Horne—especially with that stunning swimming pool!

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