At the onset of the pandemic, I found myself creating a new routine once things began to settle. Like many others, my usual habits were disrupted, which left me feeling somewhat lost. I relied heavily on my morning workouts and established a consistent workspace. I woke my kids up at the same time daily so they could log into their online classes, shopped for groceries on a set schedule, baked every Friday, and adhered to a cleaning regimen. I even organized regular calls with friends and treated my kids to takeout a few times each week.
These routines became a lifeline amid the chaos, helping me feel more grounded. I reassured myself that if I kept moving forward, we’d all get through this. When feelings of overwhelm crept in, the stability of my daily habits prevented me from spiraling into despair.
Many friends and family shared similar experiences. With their once-exciting lives reduced to a more mundane existence, they focused on the routines they had established, which provided a sense of comfort. However, during this period, we often found ourselves resisting the natural inclination to slow down, pushing ourselves harder than ever before.
With the constant demands of remote learning, work-from-home challenges, and the never-ending housework, every task felt monumental. Despite having fewer commitments, I felt exhausted, telling myself I should be more energized since I didn’t have to go out. Just stick to the routine, I thought.
Now, as vaccination rates rise and life begins to resemble pre-pandemic normalcy, I find it even tougher to adhere to any routine. My focus is wavering, and my motivation has diminished significantly. I was eager to dive back into the activities I once loved, yet it seems more challenging than ever.
I’m not alone in this struggle. A friend confided that she’s finding it hard to work each day, feeling like she’s losing her spark despite having her outlets back. Another friend was thrilled to resume her exercise classes after a lengthy break, yet has canceled several sessions, unable to reignite her enthusiasm.
We also gathered thoughts from some readers who expressed similar sentiments. One individual shared that after several vacations this summer, they struggle to stay focused and are aware that they’ll feel the impact on their business soon. Another reader mentioned missing the routines they had during the pandemic, while yet another echoed the sentiment of feeling scattered.
According to Psychology Today, while some thrive in times of change, many people form strong attachments to their routines and environments. This attachment can make adjusting to new circumstances quite challenging. Abrupt changes can disrupt our emotional well-being, leaving us feeling disoriented and insecure. It’s normal to recognize the need for change, but not everyone copes with it effectively.
If you’re finding it hard to get back into the flow of things, rest assured that you are not alone. Many of us are grappling with how to find balance and what feels right for us. Personally, I’ve learned to take things one day at a time, focusing on essential tasks before allowing myself some downtime. It’s about not being too hard on myself if things don’t go as planned.
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