The moment I discovered I was expecting, a flood of questions rushed through my mind. Am I ready for motherhood? Is it okay to eat sushi? Can I still enjoy iced tea? Is exercise permissible?
Naturally, I also had more clinical concerns. How much weight should I gain? Is my blood pressure within normal limits? How’s my blood sugar? But the question I found myself Googling the most was, “What does labor feel like?” I was eager to understand what to expect. However, after being reassured by doctors, experienced parents, and countless online resources that I would “know” when it was time, I eventually stopped searching. That’s how I ended up in labor twice without any awareness or warning. I was having contractions every 90 seconds and was completely unaware of it.
I can imagine your reaction: What?! How is this possible? Contractions are typically painful, right? There’s discomfort, cramping, pressure. But my experience was different. I didn’t feel the usual aches or pains; there was no bloody show. My contractions were not the textbook version; they were irregular and didn’t debilitate me. I could breathe, walk, and even run through each one (more on that later).
Around 3:00 PM, I started to notice an unusual sensation. My abdominal area was tightening and then relaxing, similar to straining to use the bathroom. I thought it might be Braxton Hicks contractions, so I timed the sensations for about an hour. They felt long and erratic, and I dismissed them as nothing significant.
I went for a run, enjoyed dinner with buffalo wings and a hefty plate of fries, and then headed to the movies with my husband. Just before the trailers started, I experienced a slight fluid leak, prompting a call to my doctor. That’s when I found out I was in labor. I was already at 4cm dilation and was swiftly moved from the ER to the labor ward.
The hours that followed were surprisingly calm and uneventful. I monitored the contraction monitor, which displayed a steady rhythm, yet I felt nothing. I walked the halls to speed up labor, played video games with my husband, and had frequent check-ins from the nurses, who often asked, “You don’t feel that?” I was genuinely a medical anomaly.
However, when my labor stalled, my doctor suggested an intervention. He administered pitocin, and suddenly, everything changed. The painless contractions morphed into intense pain that felt like a hammer striking my spine. This was the type of labor pain I had anticipated.
From that point onward, my labor progressed like most people’s. I focused on my breathing and found myself cursing my husband under my breath. I quickly abandoned my “natural birthing” plan and requested an epidural, moving rapidly from 6cm to 9cm. Before I knew it, I was ready to push, and after 36 hours of labor, I welcomed a beautiful and healthy baby girl into the world.
Remember when I mentioned experiencing phantom labor twice? The same scenario repeated itself five years later with my son. I had consistent contractions for an entire day before realizing what was happening.
While most people will experience “normal” labor with typical contractions, not every pregnancy follows that script. If you feel something is off during your pregnancy, trust your instincts. Labor is not always as portrayed in movies, so don’t hesitate to seek medical advice. It could be the sign of something more significant.
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In summary, my experience of being unaware of labor twice highlights that not every pregnancy journey is the same. Trust your gut feeling when something feels amiss.
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