The crowded gyms in January are almost comical. That’s why I’ve stopped making promises to hit the gym regularly. There’s something almost mindless about joining the crowd in making New Year’s resolutions. If most people are back to their old habits by February, why should I assume I’ll fare any better?
In my research on the challenges of keeping resolutions, I came across insightful advice from life coach Sarah Thompson, author of Awaken Your Potential: Embrace a Healthier Path. Thompson emphasizes that resolutions often stem from a mindset focused on what needs fixing, accompanied by a sense of judgment and guilt. Many resolutions revolve around altering our bodies, often using self-criticism as a tool for motivation. This begs the question: Why do we treat ourselves so harshly?
Thompson advocates for setting New Year’s intentions instead of resolutions. Instead of declaring, “I will attend yoga classes three times a week and run five miles on alternate days,” consider framing it as, “I intend to engage in physical activity because it brings me joy, whether that’s dancing, jogging, or taking a refreshing walk.” It’s essential to avoid harsh self-judgment when we stray from our intentions, as we all inevitably do. Making intentions allows us to commit to our best selves rather than to a relentless inner critic.
This brings me to the most important intention to consider: Be kinder to yourself. That’s the essence of it. I’ll make that promise if you will.
For those seeking alternatives to the gym, I recommend exploring self-monitoring tools like the MyFitnessPal app and fitness guidance from experts like Jamie Collins. They provide effective strategies without the hassle of crowded machines.
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In summary, shifting from resolutions to intentions allows for a more compassionate approach toward personal growth. By focusing on what feels good rather than what needs fixing, we can foster a healthier mindset.
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