Dear Server at the Family Diner,
Your words struck a chord with me during our recent visit. “I saw you breastfeeding your baby, and I just want to express how proud I am of you. Thank you for having the courage to breastfeed in public.”
You likely have no idea how much your kindness meant to me that day. We had journeyed nearly two hours from our home, located 40 miles from the nearest grocery store, for our monthly shopping trip. Our little one hadn’t nursed since we left home that morning, and this outing had turned into a family event for my husband and our three children. My mood was already dimmed by the discourteous behavior of other shoppers.
When you greeted us with a warm smile that Sunday afternoon, your service was nothing short of exceptional. After our meal, you approached me to express your appreciation for breastfeeding in public. You shared how you had noticed me feeding my baby shortly after we were seated and how it upset you to see negative comments about breastfeeding on social media. Your sincere gratitude took me by surprise.
In that moment, I found myself admiring your perspective—an insightful outlook that belied your youth. I had expected such wisdom from someone older, perhaps a seasoned individual who had experienced more of life. Just prior to our encounter, I had crossed paths with an older gentleman whose brusque demeanor contrasted sharply with your grace. Instead of reciprocating my smile when I made room for him, he responded with an abrupt remark.
I had anticipated that kind of behavior from my own generation, often criticized for entitlement and rudeness. However, you, thirteen years younger and without children of your own, chose to commend me for something so natural yet often misunderstood. Instead of my thanking you for your attentive service, you took the time to acknowledge my efforts. You lifted my spirits and restored my faith in humanity, reminding me that kindness still exists.
So, to you, the young server who thanked me for breastfeeding in public, I extend my heartfelt gratitude.
Sincerely,
Your grateful diner, Jessica
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In Summary
Sometimes a small act of kindness can profoundly impact someone’s day, reminding us all of the goodness that exists in the world.
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