As the pandemic continues and with one of our children still ineligible for vaccination, we’ve made the decision to only allow vaccinated individuals into our home—except in emergencies, of course. This necessitates finding out the vaccination status of any service providers who come to our house.
Personally, I have no hesitation in asking. I’ve inquired about vaccine status from air conditioning technicians, home repair personnel, and even furniture assemblers. Most have responded positively, reassuring me of their vaccination.
However, I did encounter one air conditioning company that refused to disclose their employees’ vaccine status, and a handyman who declined to share his medical information. To me, a refusal to disclose feels like an indication of being unvaccinated. No hard feelings, though; it simply meant I needed to find someone else for the job, which I did.
In addition to service workers, I also ask every doctor my children see about their vaccination status, as well as their staff. Fortunately, every medical professional I’ve spoken to has been vaccinated and has willingly shared that information. I’ve also asked hairstylists and the parents of my kids’ friends if they, too, are vaccinated.
This Shouldn’t Be a Controversial Topic
Vaccination has become a divisive political issue for many, which is unfortunate. Vaccines are fundamentally a public health matter and are not tied to politics. We are amid a global pandemic that has led to over 600,000 deaths. Vaccines are safe, save lives, and reduce virus transmission. They are essential for bringing an end to this crisis.
For me, inquiring about vaccination status is straightforward. It’s not an emotional issue; it’s simply about gathering information to keep my family safe. I prefer not to be in close contact with anyone who hasn’t received a COVID vaccine.
While it seems logical that we all want to ensure our safety by avoiding those who might carry the virus, I understand that some people may feel uncomfortable asking about vaccination status. They might perceive it as intrusive or even a violation of privacy.
Let’s explore how to approach asking about vaccination status in a way that feels right for you.
Asking About Vaccination Status Is Not a HIPAA Violation
I remember seeking recommendations for a vaccinated handyman in a Facebook group a while back (I know, not the ideal venue, but I was in a pinch). Some commenters claimed that asking about vaccination status was a violation of HIPAA. This is actually a misunderstanding. While it may be socially awkward for some to ask, it is not illegal.
HIPAA laws are designed to protect individuals’ medical information from being disclosed without consent. If I were to ask a handyman’s doctor about his vaccination status and the doctor shared that information, that would constitute a HIPAA violation—but not for me.
Simply asking someone about their vaccination status is not against the law. It’s up to the individual whether they want to answer.
How to Ask Respectfully
To feel more comfortable asking about vaccination status, recognize that you have every right to inquire, and it’s not intrusive. We’re navigating a pandemic, and understanding someone’s vaccination status is vital for safety.
However, it’s important to ask tactfully. Being friendly and respectful goes a long way. The Washington Post suggests starting the conversation by sharing your own vaccination status. Then, you might express that you don’t feel comfortable being around unvaccinated individuals. I often mention that I have young family members who can’t be vaccinated, emphasizing the importance of knowing the vaccination status of those I interact with.
Often, this opens the door for others to share their vaccination status without needing to ask directly. But if you need to ask, consider these approaches:
- Would you be comfortable sharing your vaccination status with me?
- I know vaccines can be a sensitive topic, but could you let me know if you’ve received the COVID-19 vaccine?
- My children are unvaccinated, so it’s important for me to know the vaccination status of those around us. Can you tell me if you are vaccinated?
- When I allow others into my home, I prioritize working with vaccinated individuals. Have you received the COVID-19 vaccine?
How to Handle Responses
Most people who are vaccinated are supportive of sharing their status. After all, combating this virus is a collective effort that thrives on open communication. I haven’t faced any backlash for my inquiries, though I acknowledge that could change.
If someone reacts negatively, I tend to keep my response neutral and simply say, “Okay, thanks,” and move on. Most often, individuals express discomfort sharing their information, which I interpret as a likely indication they are unvaccinated. If they choose not to disclose, that’s their decision, but it means I won’t feel comfortable working with them.
Although discussions about vaccination can be awkward, there’s no reason to feel guilty about asking. This doesn’t have to be an emotionally charged issue. Just ask the question, receive the answer, and move forward. In many situations, if someone isn’t vaccinated or unwilling to share, there are plenty of vaccinated professionals who are eager to assist.
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Summary: Navigating inquiries about vaccination status with professionals, such as doctors or hairstylists, is essential for ensuring safety during the pandemic. Understanding that this is not a violation of privacy laws can empower individuals to ask these questions. Approaching the topic tactfully and sharing personal vaccination status can facilitate open communication, fostering a sense of safety for families, particularly those with unvaccinated members.

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