If you’ve made the decision that your family is complete and your baby-making days are over, you’re certainly not alone. Whether you chose to stop at one, two, or even six kids, there comes a time when you hit The Point—the moment when you know you’re finished with childbirth.
Sure, you may sometimes feel nostalgic for those early baby days as your children grow and become more independent, but your desire for any more little ones is firmly off the table. Your “oven” is closed, the “gas” is turned off, and you are unequivocally DONE with having more babies.
This sentiment resonates with many mothers, as reflected in our Confessional space where moms are embracing their choices to stop at a certain number of children.
“I eventually agreed with my partner’s decision to have no more kids. I love my son from my previous marriage, but I’ve realized that raising more children isn’t for me. No regrets here; being one and done is fantastic.” – Confessional #25811962
“I see moms everywhere with three or more kids, looking happy and thriving. It only took two for me to feel completely overwhelmed. I’m a shadow of my former self, just trying to survive each day. Why do I feel like a failure?” – Confessional #25811508
“I’m done having kids! Why can’t everyone respect my decision and just let me be?” – Confessional #25805972
“I’ve realized I’m too self-focused to have more kids. Our daughter is six months old, and while I thought I’d love motherhood more, I think we’ll just stick to one.” – Confessional #25791294
While some moms choose to stop having kids, others find that the choice is made for them by circumstance. Regardless, they all share one thing: a firm decision to not have more children.
“I’m not thrilled with how my body looks after having a baby. I don’t want any more kids, but I feel guilty my child might be sad or lonely as an only child.” – Confessional #25789503
“My partner wants another baby, but I don’t. My stepson is autistic and requires a lot of time and attention. I’m sticking to birth control because I can barely manage as it is.” – Confessional #25785267
“I had my tubes tied during my scheduled C-section because my partner was drunk and confused about our family planning. Now he wonders why we aren’t having more kids.” – Confessional #25783700
“If my son ever asks why he’s an only child, the honest answer might be that he was such a challenging baby that we were too scared to try again.” – Confessional #25779958
Many mothers wrestle with guilt about having an “only child,” fearing they can’t handle another pregnancy. But let me reassure you: don’t feel bad. An “only child” will have a mom who is healthy, happy, and fully present in their life. That’s what truly matters, so ignore anyone who tries to make you feel guilty about your choice.
“My husband wants more kids, but I’m content with our twins. I really don’t want any more.” – Confessional #24265072
“If we had family nearby to help us like my sister-in-law does, we might have considered more kids. But without that support, we felt overwhelmed with the children we already have.” – Confessional #24228591
And here’s a humorous confession: “Despite what I tell people about wanting more children, the truth is both my partner and I are not exactly attractive. We got lucky with our son inheriting the good genes, and I’m not risking it again.” – Confessional #24092090
Whatever your reasons for not wanting more kids, they are valid. Don’t let anyone pressure you.
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Summary
Many parents find themselves at a crossroads when it comes to family size. Whether due to personal choice, mental health, or external circumstances, a significant number of mothers are choosing to stop after a certain number of children. The reasons vary, but the underlying sentiment of being done is clear. It’s essential to recognize and respect these decisions, as they are often made with careful consideration of one’s mental and emotional well-being.
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