We all have those moments when we’re mindlessly scrolling through our phones, barely absorbing what we see. But then something catches our eye and sparks our interest. That’s exactly what happened to me recently when I stumbled upon an article discussing the ultimate sex position tailored for vulva owners. I was intrigued, to say the least.
If you’re unfamiliar with it, the position is called the Venus Butterfly. My attention was piqued after realizing how difficult it can be for many vulva owners to achieve orgasm through vaginal intercourse alone. Studies show that only about 25% of us reach climax that way. To put it bluntly, that’s not enough; no one wants just a quarter of their favorite ice cream or a snippet of a great show.
For those of us who rely on clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm, it becomes clear that exploring new techniques is essential for both personal and partner satisfaction. So, when I came across the Venus Butterfly, I wanted to share this discovery with others while also trying it for myself.
I’m thrilled to share that the Venus Butterfly is just as delightful as its name suggests. I’ve experienced multiple orgasms this week alone, and it’s incredibly comfortable for the receiving partner. This position was first introduced in the 1988 book, The One Hour Orgasm: How to Learn the Amazing “Venus Butterfly” Technique, authored by Leah and Bob Schwartz. The technique involves the giver stimulating the receiver’s clitoris or hood while positioning themselves at either the two-o’clock or ten-o’clock angle. With the help of lubricant, one thumb should maintain gentle pressure on the clitoral shaft while the other thumb remains just within the vagina. The pace should be steady but can be adjusted to bring the receiver close to orgasm and then slow down or stop before repeating.
But wait, there’s more! According to Men’s Health, this position is also fantastic for oral sex. The receiver lies on their back with legs spread like a butterfly’s wings, allowing for optimal access. Kenneth Play, creator of the Sex Hacker Pro Series, emphasizes that stimulating multiple erogenous zones can enhance pleasure for vulva owners.
If you think this is just a variation of missionary, you’re partially correct. However, the key difference is the positioning of your legs, which allows for more access and intimacy. Incorporating toys and fingers during oral stimulation can elevate the experience even further.
That said, remember that every body is unique; what works wonders for some might not be enjoyable for others. If the Venus Butterfly doesn’t resonate with you, there are plenty of other options to explore. After all, life is too short for a lackluster sex position.
Now, if you’ll excuse me, my partner is signaling that he’s ready to catch some butterflies.
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In summary, the Venus Butterfly is a technique that promises enhanced pleasure for vulva owners by engaging multiple erogenous zones. Whether you’re looking to spice things up in the bedroom or explore new sensations, this position is worth trying.
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