The year I turned forty, I felt the urge to take a solo trip to Taiwan to indulge in my love for food and reconnect with friends. I pictured myself at my cousin’s apartment, free from the demands of my four kids and their jetlag. But, in a moment of weakness, I caved to my then 6-year-old daughter’s heartfelt plea to join me. I took her along, and while I cherish the memories we made, I can’t help but wonder how fabulous it would have been to explore Taipei on my own, focused solely on my culinary cravings.
Fast forward to now, after a year and a half of being cooped up at home with my family (who I love, despite the occasional chaos), I’m ready for a solo getaway. I recently planned a few trips to Los Angeles where I met friends, but I also enjoyed the drive alone, blasting music and embracing the freedom.
For many parents, especially mothers, summer can feel more exhausting than relaxing. If you’re experiencing burnout, why not take a break? Whether it’s a day or two, leaving your family behind for some well-deserved time alone can be rejuvenating. Here are seven compelling reasons to consider a solo trip:
- Why Not?
Seriously, why not treat yourself? - A Chance to Rest.
Your getaway doesn’t need to be jam-packed with activities. Sometimes, all you need is a break. Lisa Curzon, a mother of two, emphasizes the importance of stepping out of your daily routine to recharge. - Boosts Confidence.
Accomplishing tasks that initially seem daunting can significantly enhance your self-confidence. Lynn Wiltse shares that her solo travels have pushed her to try new experiences and feel more self-assured. - Confront Your Fears.
Traveling alone can help you face and overcome fears. For Roni Faida, her first solo trip to Barcelona, despite the language barrier, taught her about resilience and empathy. - Increases Empathy.
Kelly Sharpe Reilly’s solo journey to Machu Picchu made her more understanding of others’ experiences, particularly her students learning English as a second language. - Enjoy Your Own Company.
Tomiko Harvey loves the freedom of exploring new places on her own, relishing the opportunity to enjoy her own company without distractions. - Rediscover Yourself.
Years of caring for others can make you feel lost. Jeannette Kaplun’s solo trip to Paris allowed her to reconnect with her passions and find joy in her own company.
If you’ve been waiting for the perfect time to escape, don’t hesitate. Choose a weekend, book a hotel, and treat yourself to a refreshing break. Your loved ones will be waiting for you when you return, and you might just find they appreciate you even more!
For more insights, check out this related blog post for tips on self-care and personal growth. Also, if you’re looking to boost your fertility journey, take a look at Make A Mom’s excellent resources. And for valuable information on family-building options, visit Resolve.
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