Updated: Sep. 13, 2021
Originally Published: Sep. 10, 2021
COVID has made its way into our home, and today marks day 13 of this challenging experience. It all began when my husband tested positive, leading to his immediate isolation. Since then, our kids have not seen him. Initially, I believed he was the only one affected, as the rest of us felt fine. I had faith that my vaccination would protect me, and I thought our kids could manage by keeping their distance from one another. I was wrong.
By day seven, I took our children for testing to clear them for school next week. Thankfully, our school mandates a negative test to prevent asymptomatic kids from returning and potentially spreading the virus. However, my son tested positive. No symptoms. I thought this wouldn’t be a big deal; after all, kids don’t tend to get sick from COVID, right? Wrong.
My son’s immediate reaction to the news was heartbreaking. He moved away and apologized, feeling guilty for being contagious. He understood the seriousness of the situation and knew he needed to stay away from others to keep them safe. It’s frustrating to see how much more aware he is than some adults who refuse to acknowledge the reality of this virus.
Once we returned home from the doctor, my son went into isolation, which for an eight-year-old means dealing with fear and loneliness. He had to eat, sleep, and do schoolwork alone for the next ten days. The only contact he had with his siblings was through FaceTime and text messages. I could only support him from a distance, wearing a mask while assisting with his schoolwork. It’s heartbreaking.
Then, the health department called, and the gravity of our situation settled in. It dawned on me that children with COVID can spread the virus. We had to implement strict sanitation protocols, including using only paper plates and plastic utensils. I was overwhelmed when I realized that even my dishwasher might not eliminate the virus.
To keep everyone safe, I had to isolate each family member. My children were confined to their rooms, with one sleeping in the family room. They could use their devices but had no communal activities or shared meals. My youngest, a five-year-old, did distance learning at the kitchen table while wearing a mask. It’s infuriating that they have to endure this when they should be with their friends at school.
I am bitter. My kids were back in school for only four days before COVID struck. They deserve to learn in a classroom environment, not isolated at home. Trying to manage four kids in virtual learning while ensuring we don’t cross-contaminate is nearly impossible. If we continue to test positive, we could be stuck in this situation for weeks.
As the only adult responsible for five people, including one who is ill with COVID, I am utterly exhausted. No one is allowed to touch anything without my supervision. Sanitizing after every bathroom visit is maddening.
Living with asymptomatic COVID in the house means everyone is a suspect. This is especially painful for a family like ours, who thrives on physical affection. I haven’t hugged my children in almost two weeks, and they miss that closeness. They are lonely and crave connection, but I can’t risk spreading the virus.
Just because my son is asymptomatic doesn’t mean he is healthy. He could face long-term effects from COVID, and that terrifies me. This situation is preventable, and it’s frustrating to see others ignore the science.
I have little patience for adults who refuse vaccinations and continue to spread the virus. The ignorance surrounding mask-wearing and the belief that children are immune to COVID is maddening. I urge everyone to take responsibility: wash your hands, wear a mask, and get vaccinated. If you don’t, you will face the consequences.
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In summary, the impact of COVID on our family has been profound, forcing us into isolation and altering our daily lives. It’s a stark reminder of the importance of health precautions.
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