From The Confessional: I'm a Die-Hard Hermit and I Don't Care

These moms are unapologetic when it comes to canceling plans and embracing their time at home.

One of the perks of parenthood is having the perfect excuse to avoid just about any gathering you can think of. Not feeling up to visiting Grandma for Easter? “Oh no, sorry, Sam is under the weather.” Need a way out of a child’s birthday bash? “Oh, shoot, the baby is teething, and we just can’t make it.”

Then, there are the moms who don’t bother with excuses—they simply won’t show up and will tell you so without hesitation. Some of us just really enjoy being home, and that’s just fine!

Our confessions reveal moms who proudly embrace their hermit lifestyles.

I absolutely love being married to a pilot. My husband and I are both hermits at heart, and it creates a perfect balance for us. One month of solitude followed by two weeks filled with exciting dates, vacations, and passion. I get peace, quiet, and the chance to miss him.
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If I had the financial freedom, I’d definitely choose a hermit life in a remote location with all the comforts I enjoy. I just don’t need constant interaction, yet here I am, never alone.
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At 57, with grown kids and a retired husband, I find myself in love with my hermit lifestyle since COVID hit. I don’t want to leave my house anymore. I’m not agoraphobic or depressed; I’m just content with my hobbies. Socializing feels overrated.
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Sometimes, I wish I could hermit away from everyone, including my husband and kids. I just don’t like being around people.
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If you were a homebody pre-2020, there’s a good chance you’ve fully embraced hermit life now. And that’s totally okay! Socializing can be exhausting. It feels nice at first, but eventually, many of us just want to be at home in our comfy pants with a warm blanket on the couch.

Today, I sent my daughter to school for the first time in nearly a year. She was thrilled, but I’m terrified. I’ve done my best to prepare her for safety, but I can’t shake the feeling of failure. COVID has turned me into a hermit, and I worry about ruining her happiness.
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Being around adults has become incredibly disappointing for me. I just want to hide away from all of them; my tolerance has plummeted this year. I understand why hermits choose their solitude.
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Also, between the election and the pandemic, so many individuals have revealed their true selves. We already have limited patience for one another, so why push it? I’m deleting all my social media. I’ve never done this before, but I’m basically a hermit, and this is my only social connection. Time to either enjoy the outdoors more or learn to be okay with myself.
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I’m secretly relieved that my kids are old enough to text and call their friends, so I don’t have to manage their social lives anymore. If it were up to me, we’d never leave the house. I’m such a hermit.
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I am definitely a hermit! I often bail on social outings and dread leaving the house to engage with others. I worry about how this will affect me as I get older. Is this going to mess me up someday?
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Having just had a baby two weeks ago, I’m overwhelmed by visitors. The hermit in me is screaming to tell people to back off!
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A new baby is the perfect excuse to let your hermit tendencies shine! Unless they’re bringing a delicious casserole or willing to help clean, tell your friends and family to hit the road.

I’ve been feeling lonely working from home recently and debating whether to return to a full-time job. I was in the office this week, and nope! I can’t wait to return to my leisurely mornings, pajamas, and quiet solitude at home.
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I enjoy being a homebody! I’ve created a cozy and inviting space for family and friends. I prefer hosting gatherings at home rather than going out. I love cooking and making cocktails. However, some people judge me negatively for this and label me a hermit.
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We’re updating our home with lots of DIY projects and nicer finishes. Once it’s completed, I’m never leaving again! I’ll be a hermit in a beautiful house.
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I was pushed into social interaction last night, and this morning I feel completely drained. Motherhood has transformed me into a hermit.
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Embracing Your Hermit Lifestyle

If you’re a hermit and loving it, give yourself a round of applause! Seriously, it’s refreshing to see so many women who refuse to feel guilty about being homebodies. Whatever works for you is what counts, especially if you’re an introvert who recharges through alone time—do what you need to do!

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In summary, it’s perfectly fine to embrace your hermit lifestyle, especially if it brings you joy and peace. Many women are finding solace in their homebody tendencies, and the shift towards introversion can be liberating. Whatever your situation, remember that taking time for yourself is not only acceptable but necessary for your overall well-being.