When I was 30 weeks pregnant with my youngest child, I was diagnosed with gestational diabetes. Honestly, it wasn’t a huge concern. I only missed the glucose test by six points, and by being mindful of my diet, I managed to keep my blood sugar levels in check. After receiving the diagnosis, I never experienced a high reading. My baby arrived healthy, and there were no birth complications related to blood sugar. Following her birth, I monitored my levels for a few weeks, and thankfully, my blood sugar returned to normal even without adhering to a strict diabetic diet.
I thought that was the end of my diabetes journey. Now, my daughter is nearly two, and it turns out that was just the beginning. I’ve recently learned that I am among the 50% of individuals who develop Type 2 diabetes after experiencing gestational diabetes. My only symptom was recurring yeast infections. Considering my medical history, my doctor recommended I check my A1C, and it was, unfortunately, in the diabetic range.
I also have PCOS, and I suspected that my experience with gestational diabetes meant I would eventually face diabetes again. With both of my grandmothers having diabetes, my family history plays a role too. Being larger than average adds another layer of complexity.
I’m still navigating the emotional landscape that comes with this new diagnosis. Interestingly, my prevailing feeling is one of relief. I’m thankful we caught it early, allowing me to manage it and protect myself from the long-term consequences of elevated blood sugar. That is definitely positive news; had we not discovered it, I could have faced serious health issues. It’s been two weeks since the diagnosis, and with a mix of medication, diet changes, and increased exercise, my blood sugar has significantly improved. It’s mostly within a healthy range now, which is encouraging.
However, the long-term implications of diabetes are daunting. I know that for some individuals, losing weight can help alleviate Type 2 diabetes symptoms. This is part of my treatment plan, and I’m on board with that. I have always found it frustrating when doctors recommend weight loss for conditions unrelated to weight, but in the context of diabetes, it makes sense. Reducing my body weight is scientifically supported as beneficial to managing diabetes.
What makes me sad is that I’ve spent the last five years coming to terms with my body image. I’ve learned to appreciate myself beyond my size and have worked hard to separate health from self-worth. I’ve focused on the positive aspects of my body, and in many ways, this has led to a freedom I can’t describe.
Surprisingly, this acceptance has also led to weight loss. By not restricting my diet excessively, I’ve been able to reduce the binge-eating patterns that often followed strict diets. Over the past three years, I’ve seen my weight gradually decrease. Embracing my body has not resulted in the weight gain that diet culture warned me about; instead, it has fostered a sense of moderation and control that I previously lacked.
I could rationalize my situation all day long, but the truth is, if you’re judging me because my pancreas isn’t functioning properly, that’s not fair. I don’t owe anyone an explanation for why I deserve understanding regarding my diabetes. The only reason I feel compelled to justify myself is due to the stigma I’ve faced for existing in a larger body. It’s trauma that makes me want to plead for respect, even though my body is bigger, and I’m exhausted from needing to do so just to mitigate the hurtful comments that often accompany sharing my story.
I’m already facing challenges. Please don’t add more difficulty to my situation. Maintaining my commitment to body acceptance feels daunting when my life now demands constant attention to my diet and blood sugar. How can I reject the toxic mindset of diet culture that has plagued me for so long while also needing to track my intake meticulously?
I know myself well enough to anticipate that diet culture is going to creep back into my thoughts, turning health management into a quest for thinness. The notion that a diabetic diet could help me shed some pounds has already entered my mind, and it feels absurd to think I need a “silver lining” for a chronic condition.
I genuinely want to prioritize my health, but I refuse to become obsessed with my appearance again. The slippery slope of self-doubt is already underway. I’ve spent decades searching for validation in my body since realizing I was larger at a young age. I cultivated that sense of worth in my thirties, and now I’m faced with the reality of needing to monitor my food intake for life? Yes, I understand that once we find what works for my body, I can still enjoy occasional treats without long-term consequences. I know that diabetes is manageable, if not curable, and I’m committed to following the necessary steps.
But how do I balance managing a condition that requires constant dietary attention with the goal of loving my body? That’s my biggest concern. I’m willing to do what it takes to stay healthy, but it’s hard to envision a future where I experience complete food freedom again.
It’s overwhelming, and I don’t have all the answers yet. I hope that eventually, making choices aligned with my body’s needs will become second nature, allowing me to reclaim a sense of food freedom. Other individuals with diabetes assure me that it won’t always feel so daunting as I acclimate to this new lifestyle. I trust their experience.
And for my precious daughter, this journey is worth it. If having her means dealing with diabetes, I would choose her every single time, without hesitation. But for now, my fingers ache from the constant finger pricks, my mind is racing with the details I need to manage, and my heart feels heavy, wondering if this diagnosis will push me back to a place where I struggle to appreciate my body, diabetes and all.
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Summary:
This article discusses the emotional and physical challenges of managing a recent Type 2 diabetes diagnosis after gestational diabetes. It explores feelings of relief and concern regarding body image, weight loss, and the potential impact of diet culture on self-acceptance. The author reflects on the journey toward body positivity and the complexities of balancing health management with self-worth.
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