In a recent conversation, my young nephew, Lucas, expressed his frustration, saying, “It’s so unfair! You get to do all the exciting things because you’re an adult, and we can’t because we’re just kids.” Well, yes, that’s kind of how it works, Lucas. I mean, I’m the adult here, and clearly, I have the upper hand.
Being an adult has its perks. I mean, it’s pretty great. Well, mostly great—unless, of course, it’s time to pay bills or head to the office. But as I witness my daughter transition into the challenging tween years, it becomes increasingly clear that being an adult certainly has its advantages.
Consider the freedoms we enjoy:
- Culinary Choices: We can indulge in whatever foods we want, whether it’s a plate of broccoli or a chocolate bar—before dinner, after dinner, or even as dinner. The downside? We also face the consequences, like squeezing into pants that fit just right.
- Late Nights and Leisure Activities: Adults can stay up late, binge-watch shows, and host gatherings—at least in theory. In reality, I often find myself dozing off on the couch with my laptop still open, pondering how quiet things get once the kids are asleep.
- Screen Time Freedom: There are no limits on our screen time. However, I often find myself stressing over how much time I spend on my phone instead of being productive. It’s a constant battle to balance my digital life while setting a good example for my kids.
- Work Life: Adults have the option to work tirelessly or take a break. Yet, the reality is that adulting usually means clocking in day after day, earning money to pay bills, and sometimes, indulging in a little fun along the way.
- Financial Independence: We earn real money, which allows us the freedom to pay for various bills while also treating ourselves to leisure activities.
- Transportation Responsibilities: While we get to drive, we also have to follow a multitude of rules—from speed limits to parking regulations and insurance payments.
- Fashion Choices: We can wear what we want—provided it meets a myriad of societal expectations regarding length, fit, and comfort.
- Language Use: We can use profanity when we choose—just not around Grandma or the kids. So, really, it’s mostly limited to adult-only gatherings.
- Beverage Choices: Adults enjoy drinks for various reasons, be it celebrations, stress relief, or simply because it’s a day that ends with a “y.”
- Vacation Planning: We make all the decisions regarding vacations, often appreciating feedback from family members along the way. Of course, we return home with a plethora of photos, though rarely do I appear in any that aren’t selfies.
- Leadership Roles: While we think we’re in charge, it’s clear that bosses, parents, and society often dictate our choices. In many ways, adults are still navigating their own version of childhood dynamics.
- Parenting: Above all, being a parent is the most fulfilling role I can imagine. There’s no other job I would treasure more than being a mother.
In conclusion, despite the myriad of responsibilities and challenges that adulthood brings, I have to admit that the experience isn’t as bad as I sometimes portray. Perhaps I owe Lucas an apology or two for not fully appreciating the joys of being a kid.
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Summary
Adulthood comes with its own set of challenges, but the freedoms and joys often outweigh the responsibilities. From culinary choices to parenting, being an adult isn’t as terrible as it sometimes seems.
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