Every morning, after I drop my kids off at school, I watch them walk in with a silent wish for their safety before heading out for a run. Following that, I treat myself to my beloved Coke Zero from my go-to fast food spot. They know me well, often asking about my writing projects, and sometimes they surprise me by handing over my drink without asking for payment.
Today, however, they noticed something was off the moment they saw my puffy eyes and tear-streaked face.
“What’s wrong?!” the cashier asked, concern evident in her voice.
“Adele’s new song about divorce just came out, and I don’t think I’ll ever get over it,” I replied candidly.
She handed me my drink and took a step back, likely sensing my emotional state.
If you happen to see folks wandering around this weekend with smudged makeup or wearing sunglasses indoors, just assume they’ve got ‘Easy On Me’ playing on repeat, much like I do. No matter how many times I promise myself that I won’t listen to it again because I’ve run out of tears, I can’t resist.
Adele has always been a favorite of mine, but even those who don’t share my level of obsession agree that her music resonates deeply. She has a unique ability to express heartbreak without holding back.
As a divorced woman, many songs evoke strong feelings about my marriage, my family, and my divorce. It’s true for anyone who’s experienced a marriage coming to an end; those emotions are deeply rooted and linger long after. A song can transport you back to moments you might prefer to forget.
Adele’s ‘Easy On Me’ struck a chord within me like no other song has before. It felt like a heartfelt letter to her son about her divorce, expressed in a way I had never encountered. I connected with every word.
I understand that when artists put their feelings out into the world, listeners interpret them through their own experiences. We often find reflections of our own stories in songs.
Listening to this track for the first time felt like my heart was laid bare, and the lyrics encapsulated what I’ve been wanting to express to my children since their father and I parted ways.
“I had good intentions
And the highest hopes
But I know right now
It probably doesn’t even show.”
There have been countless moments when I wished I could share those thoughts with my kids, especially during times when they were upset with me or when I struggled to be the mom they needed because my emotions over the divorce were overwhelming.
Yet, I hesitated because I didn’t want to place that burden on them. That guilt is a heavy weight.
It’s perfectly okay to let your children—or anyone, for that matter—know that you’re navigating something tough and need their understanding.
It’s acceptable to acknowledge that you’ve caused pain and still ask for a little compassion.
It’s also alright to grapple with the fallout of a failed marriage, feel guilty about it, and try to maintain your composure for your kids, even when it feels impossible.
As a divorced mother, you don’t have to endure every emotional upheaval that divorce brings while pretending to be unshakeable all the time.
I’m eagerly anticipating the full album’s release in November—there’s bound to be a significant demand for tissues.
While this song calls for empathy from others, if you’re dealing with a divorce (or any challenging situation), remember to extend that kindness to yourself too. And if you need a reminder, just hit play on ‘Easy On Me’ by Adele once. Or twenty-five times, like I did.
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Summary:
Adele’s new song ‘Easy On Me’ resonates deeply with divorced mothers, capturing the emotional complexities of navigating family dynamics post-divorce. The heartfelt lyrics reflect the struggles of expressing vulnerability to children while seeking understanding. As mothers cope with the challenges of separation, it’s vital to allow themselves grace and kindness.
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