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by Jamie Parker
Oct. 28, 2021

In today’s digital age, scrolling through social media has become an enormous time drain. I can’t be the only one who logs onto my preferred platform intending to check “just one thing,” only to find myself lost in a scroll for an hour (or longer) looking at entirely different content. As a mother, I often find myself caught up in the comparison trap. I wish I had that car. My house isn’t THAT big. I could change something about my hair. After three kids, I don’t look like THAT.

Whether we want to acknowledge it or not, there’s a clear link between social media usage and self-perception. The more we consume, the more we set ourselves up for comparisons. What we might initially view for inspiration often leads to the opposite effect.

Research on Social Media and Body Image

A study by Dr. Lisa Thompson, an associate professor at a leading university, revealed that when female students viewed images tagged with #fitspo, they reported lower self-compassion. In contrast, those who engaged with motivational quotes like “You’re perfect just the way you are” felt better about themselves.

Another survey found that women often engaged in negative comparisons about their appearance with peers and celebrities while using Facebook but were less likely to do so with family members. Interestingly, distant acquaintances sparked the strongest body image concerns.

Boys Aren’t Exempt from Body Image Issues

Discussions about body image often center around women, but that doesn’t mean boys are unaffected. Men are also scrolling through Instagram, and the pressure to conform to certain body standards is immense. Forget the stereotype that men don’t care about their looks; they do, and it matters to them a lot. I can’t count how many times I’ve seen a male relative scrolling through social media, then lamenting, “I really need to hit the gym.” Eating disorders and mental health struggles aren’t exclusive to women, yet men often remain silent about their issues.

A study in the journal Psychology of Men & Masculinity found that men exposed to images of fit peers tended to view themselves as less attractive and in poorer shape compared to those who saw neutral images.

In recent years, media portrayals of male bodies have become increasingly muscular and lean, with a noticeable uptick in the number of undressed men in advertisements since the 1980s. These unrealistic ideals contribute to body dissatisfaction and muscle dysmorphia among boys.

The Pressure Is Real

The societal expectation now seems to be “go big or go home,” leaving little room for average body types. Social media is affecting male body image just as much as it does for females. Furthermore, men are increasingly feeling pressured about skincare, hair loss, and even whispers penis size. To combat these issues, we need more candid discussions about social media’s impact, starting from a young age, and we must eliminate the stigma surrounding men’s mental health.

As parents, we can help mitigate rising body image issues in young boys and girls by limiting their social media exposure. Trust me, your child isn’t missing out by not having TikTok at 12.

Ultimately, we must remind ourselves—regardless of gender—that the images we encounter on social media are not realistic. It’s possible to be healthy, happy, and complete without resembling the latest fitness influencer.

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Summary:

Social media significantly influences body image perceptions in boys, just as it does in girls. The constant comparison to idealized images can lead to dissatisfaction and mental health issues. Parents should consider limiting their children’s social media access to foster healthier self-images. Open conversations about these pressures are essential for supporting boys’ mental well-being.